Relation of wife and mother is exclusive 5000 not the war of far more than, to 80 hind be on social arena till, wife and mother's battle grows in intensity. Coddle since childhood and stand to go alone especially 80 hind, how as feudal as the tradition 50 hind 60 hind does the mother-in-law handle good relationship? And the experience that sees me is shared, hope every family can detailed and happy ～
One, powerful endurance and open-minded bosom
1, the mother-in-law that not provocative husband and wife concerns is good mother-in-law. This is your key to mother-in-law manner. Do not have overmuch demand to the mother-in-law, think the hardships of her October be pregnant, those who think her in one day labors is pungent, think what she does not divide day and night to feed, the be very worried about that thinks he is like two years one day... she had been done for you too much, never mention it all these and you are irrespective, without all these, your husband comes from where, your love rises from He Tan again. So, as long as she is not provocative your husband and wife concerns, can accept of other. 
2, right before the mother-in-law husband at sb's beck and call. Must install and should install very picture! No matter both of you close a door to come how, must become before the mother-in-law good gracious female. He feeds this man as a child big, have nearly 30 years alone, abrupt came a person wants and she is shared together, darling obedience is not bad, have a bit not suitable can tick off certainly remove her all dissatisfaction, this will be the beginning that your affliction lives. So, must install rightly husband always follow sb's advice, diligent of hands or feet, answer house to let him hold a foot to massage genuflect Cuo garment board is you then the thing of two people.
3, any defect that do not let a mother-in-law hear you to say husband from any channel. Each child is the artwork that parents gives carve of intention of entire painstaking effort, this artwork is without free time defect in their eye, not allow to encroach. Especially new wife, calculate you to have extremely big opinion to Laogong, also do not let a mother-in-law hear please, even if be,speak of from inside others mouth, to certain mother-in-law, you say her son is bad to still be inferior to saying she is bad. 
4, maintain a distance certainly with husband before the mother-in-law. Do not let your husband do any good to you things before your mother-in-law, even if be of the language,also be no good. Husband is very right to yours crisis feeling is for her, because be in her heart, she raised this man two years, was used to his is his whole world, should divide this world slowly at a draught go out, everybody is accepted. Do not ask by what, all hardship that unless you are not afraid that wife and mother is contradictory,bring to you likely, include the possibility of the divorce. 
5, do not be troubled by any unpleasantness with the mother-in-law before marriage. Remembered, any. I see make a noise so that cannot leave to hand in because of all sorts of problems and mother-in-law before those marriage, especially because of betrothal gifts money, feel this is an old fool of world absolutely. You had not begun pair of mother-in-laws into the door all sorts of revolt, raise all sorts of requirements, how do you let a mother-in-law want? In their heart, wife should do be subject to only, at least begins must such, wanting to give her severity hsown by an official on assuming post, do bad an emotional put an end to that oneself work hard. Calculate reluctance marriage, this also is the bomb of the life after marriage absolutely, time repeatedly not be, spending time of peace and tranquility is to need not think, beg a mother-in-law how skimp you bit you should make look. When unless you look for a husband to be in,you and her Mom fall into water decisive save you, on the contrary, dare you want such man? 
6, the mouth that should run oneself, can say the dot is Orphean say, won't say to be closed. Actually again arrogant broken person also is unable to bear or endure a few boast, your boast mother-in-law a few even if be against one's will, she is met certainly be elated, this complimentary attach most importance to especially to her should. If you won't be present boast person, that asks you to close the mouth, do not tell what great truth with the mother-in-law, the salt that the family has compares the Midouduo that you eat, preach manages you are not adversary absolutely, calculate you to be able to tell a truth that has a level again, be self-righteous over there her, be become by misunderstanding even rebellious prelude.
7, good to the mother-in-law bit do not have disadvantage. She boils nearly 30 years painstakingly to get married at enduring the son eventually establish line of business, need not worry about for him again eventually, and have his heart filled with in the heart those who expect is a son how filial she, is not she should see the child to the son, her son passed badly that she gets help... so, no matter your time passes how hardly, do not want the help of extravagant hopes mother-in-law, more do not want covet to explore her. Be opposite actively she is bit better, on holidays sends a gift to her, she is helped work when coming home, accompany her to say intimate word, saying intimate word is actual is to her one recounts him the opportunity of affliction history, give her an affirmation appropriately next, is not to draw out a heart to draw out lobar ground what to say to her...
8, no matter she is right you how, do not want the front to refute, more do not want openly engage in a battle. The mother-in-law is again bad to you, you should return a pair of smiling face, true bad to let your husband winkle come, if your husband says you are blown with her not actively,blow bedside wind to allude him to say, premise is her really incorrect. Was used to your husband to be able to say. But must not speak out from your mouth, because the mother-in-law is a mother-in-law after all, she is to wearing magnifier seeing you, the advantage is should, defect can be magnified however, so you do not say not bad, speaking out is you instead much and the thing is inurbane, bicker with the mother-in-law actually, rational says at all not clear. Had done oneself, should do must accomplish, as to her how, that is in completely she, you must not care, do not do do not care about that little contact, but scarcely should put an end to a contact. On holidays goes back wait for a few days, how to bear these days bear went, return the home to still husband does not come warm you!
9, requisite hour angle quality is changed. My mother-in-law 3 sons, so the son is baby of burdensome and rather than absolutely to her, where half minutes are cherished. That does not have method, the other people is richer, little one is returned two, but you are different, husband one, can with his part trade, after becoming mother especially, I become a lot of moment the mother-in-law is the child, need fools need termless excuse and compromise, the unjustifiable place to the mother-in-law also slowly can not bat an eyelid, as time passes also became a kind of custom, did not have conflict unpleasantness less and less also, the relation between each other also enters a benign loop. Said again, the person arrives senile, it is a rejuvenescent condition originally, a lot of moment regard her as a child, oneself also can become more powerful! 
10, must learn to put down. Accomplished afore-mentioned when, the between test when believing again fierce mother-in-law is passed also can change an attitude to you, once her manner changed you to must put down everything in the past, had gone li of place together with respect to the building below ladder, in the past let it go, the home is not reasonable place originally. Should know this individual you are not faced impossibly, and she is having conclusive effect absolutely to feeling of your husband and wife, the times changes again, the person also cannot change consanguineous force, flesh and blood of 30 years kisses the family affection, absolutely your solemn pledge of love wants deep much. Put down the past, scan widely did not come, the family is mixed and beautiful, be in harmony of its Le Rong, all enjoy the natural bonds and ethical relationships between members of a family, what is there against it!
11, the home and all things are promoted! Act on this one principle and mother-in-law to get along to do not have a fault for certain!
