Relation of wife and mother is bad, responsibility attribute a fault to any one party are incorrect, any one party also are not willing to carry this black boiler on the back. People often says " a hand is patted not noisy " , domestic contradiction is not isolated existence, wife and mother's issue also involves square respect area, want to say to who blame, I think every member cannot take off the family implication.
Have won't the son of the thing and husband. People often makes fun of two women assimilate to, the household is more such, two women trick has performed mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the family is happy; If act,was bungled, became a farce. So how can have they just performed this play? The issue that directs namely then, this director is the husband of the mother-in-law's son and daughter-in-law. If have won't the man of the thing, or is " Mom treasure male " , or is " wife canal is severe " . Won't concern evenly between wife and mother, won't remain neutral, won't install fool, won't try to mediate differences at the sacrifice of principle, won't both sides is fooled, both sides is hidden the truth from, won't care mother, won't feel distressed wife, it is say turkey to one and bazzard to another, close even scanty differ, became wife and mother's contradictory pander and director of behind the curtain inadvertently. Can let wife and mother concern to go gradually only so gradually far.
Have a wife that does not tell truth and son's wife. We do son's wife walk into husband's family door, be about to seek the seat that grants oneself, should have become above all " goodwife " , manage good marriage together with the husband, each other must be deeply attached to each other; Run good life together with the mother-in-law, each other must make concerted efforts. Had become next a junior. From with her son tie hair is husband and wife, correct oneself call mom rise momently, be about open-armed wait for her as her close Mom, still cannot resemble euqally capricious before close Mom, lazy. Contrary, daughter-in-law presses a root to regard the mother-in-law as natural enemy, suspicion does not have accredit again, dispute does not include more, pay little ask for much, add with the mother-in-law " acting channel " , the word says to be less than one case, the heart wants to be less than one case, interest makes be less than one case, relations of such wife and mother are met worse and worse.
Have a muddleheaded mother and grandmother. Contradictory very old rate comes from wife and mother at a muddleheaded mother-in-law. Muddleheaded idea of the mother-in-law and muddleheaded practice, bring about the dispute with daughter-in-law ceaseless. Many mother-in-laws always think to marry into a woman, replaced the part of own goodwife, let oneself lose Mu Zizhi to love, considered as daughter-in-law to reave a son, accordingly, keep complaint to daughter-in-law heart, always be occupied look for her without the thing stubble and by every means create difficulties for sb she, bring about its to cannot be kind to daughter-in-law, wife and mother is contradictory from this and unripe.
Still have a disappointing father and husband's father. The fault that people contradicts wife and mother, ascribe to the both sides when the thing, perhaps be a person child the man of humanness husband, and oversight another man, he is the son's father, the mother-in-law's husband, the farther-in-law of daughter-in-law. There are a such disappointing men in the family, rancor with daughter-in-law each other directly occasionally, abet occasionally oneself daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law combat, this home just does not blame if things go on like this in disorder.
