Sexual education is very important to children, sad is, face so much nowadays campus sex to invade case, our country parent still talks unexpectedly " quality " color changes.
Today, in small letter group in saw a paragraph of video.
Have do not have li head at common humour, glance happy breathe out the content that puts out, after I watched this video, was immersed in however contemplative.
Video is Guilin the monitoring kinescope of Sino-US experiment school.
Security personnel was to play little boy first, stroked the crotch of next young man students with the right hand.
After that, when little girl is passed, be stretched his hand by security personnel one is pulled, flounce off several times, still be to escape hard devil's talons, what subsequently security personnel undertook near one minute to the girl is act indecently towards.
Most let me feel afflictive and those who astonish is, because the parent discovered the child,this paragraph of video is not by act indecently towards later just by fair at numerous.
However video is sent first, after drawing numerous condemn public opinion, the president acknowledges a condition to the parent, the parent just knows to have so one and the same.
That is to say, the child is not known right-down by act indecently towards thing to oneself, also did not undertake pouring out to the parent.
Foundation of art of culture of Chinese teenager children female child protective fund disclosed a few cases that approach about Chinese children sex:
2013~2015 3 years, according to not complete count, countrywide each district is invaded by the sex of media exposure children case in all 968, fall victim children exceeds 1790 people, this is ' according to still including to state the circumstance of the approximate number such as many children ' .
In the case of public exposure, one person uses harmful case scale to many minor from 2014 15.51% climb litre to 28% 2015.
And this, it is the data that is based on public report merely. Major children sex is invaded case, because a variety of advocate objective element and fail to make public.
University of Chinese people public security investigates: Children sex invades rate of case concealed record to amount to 1 than 7. That is to say the still hiding a case 7 cases probably rear happening that a sex invades children news.
The male suffers a gender to invade often also be ignored easily, and the fact is, this thing is invaded to go up in the gender, differentiate without clear sexual distinction.
" white night goes " in have a word, "Diabolical because you are the child,won't let off you, and, devil is more than still. Devil is more than still..
Same, diabolical because you are male survival,also won't be a schoolgirl and put you one horse.
Still have a lot of people, after manhood, just dare him confide the scar of childhood times.
Even, still also be in after manhood be fear of, finally can oneself lick lap wound, move toward step by step in despair depressed, commit suicide even.
The Beijing University Department of Chinese Language and Literature this year incident of suicide of tall cliff of 1995 class schoolgirl, your whole society an in an uproar.
On March 11, 1998, the Gao Yan that suffers him teacher sex is invaded opens Yu Jiazhong of suicide burning gas.
On April 5, 2018, internet of have the aid of, release " Shenyang of scholar of renown exposure the Yangtse River teachs fact of leisurely of Beijing University Li You " one article, just lifted this dusty long already past. Tall cliff mother of 73 years old is in after losing a daughter 20 years, eventually when the opportunity that tells about to media.
Childhood, in be being considered as life by us all the time the best the most carefree day, but the does not go haze that gave a victim because of the oneself selfish desire of a few birds and beasts to bring wave however and massive psychological harm.
Have more very person, answer the behavior of the person that cut him enroach on, moved toward the road of retaliation and crime.
Be regarded as Brazilian history to go up demon of the biggest homicide, ba Maer (Sha Jiasi of Ribamar) bicycle technician, be suspected of 10 years inside kill at least 42 continuously male child, and after the gender is invaded, commit murder first, still castrate of the injured party. And the reason that its commit a crime is to retaliate his to ever was encroached when 6 years old by the gender.
This is the result that good psychological dredge did not get after children suffers a gender to invade, and most bloodcurdling is, major Chinese parent does not know what his child experienced.
Investigate its reason, my individual thinks, still result from China to " quality " conservative mood.
Watch TV in neighbour home with young associate in one's childhood, have the show share with bit of affectionate men and women a little, uncle aunt lets us twist the face immediately in the past, as if those who twist is slow bit, the eye gives pollution like.
At that time although unidentified not white, but the men and women is affectionate it is ashamed, evade, this idea is in young in my when heart confirmed. I am in going up, learn to just know, marrying so is not the requirement of unripe child, before this, I think the child was to marry to be born naturally one year too, as if the child is marry add a product.
About the gender illuminative, having an interesting view is, most schoolboy relies on E dish, the schoolgirl leans from E dish in learn to come the schoolboy of sexual knowledge tells Duan Zi of meat or fish.
Basically be the process of an incorrectly relay an erroneous information, as to the rate with effective deviate, depend on the teacher study that you are Xiang Ou beauty, still be the teacher go on a pilgrimage for Buddhist scriptures to insularity.
To the gender, our country youth has a clear understanding and knowledge rarely.
As the replace of the times, I am very gratified saw " pupil sex teachs chrestomathy " of one book publish.
Incorporate sexual knowledge not only among them gain ground, tell the child how to should protect his.
Still include to be opposite homosexual crowd, know correctly with what have free choice to life, in 3 view the respect is having very good education.
Can be the book that lets a person see a hope originally so, sufferred the opposition of large quantities of parents very quickly, bring about popularize hard finally execute.
Is this what kind of do laugh and acid?
I helplessly witnessed what accept advanced sex to teach an opportunity to Chinese child to strangle.
The manner that watchs exotic nation to be taught to the gender instead and gain ground, not be any more " between developing country and developed country 30 years of difference " of the Qing Dynasty that can say.
Foreign sex teachs the age:
Japan: Begin to teach children acknowledge sexual part from nursery school.
England: Children of 5 years old must begin to undertake the gender is taught.
Holand: 6 years old of children begin to accept sexual education.
Sweden: The children of 7 years old of above begins to undertake the gender is taught.
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Foreign sex teachs course:
England
Be in England, since 2000, the government made an item that the name is SRE (sex And Relationship Education) -- all and public middle school must attend sexual education class.
Can go up in this SRE course, schoolboy schoolgirl watchs kinescope together, the discussion after looking is the men and women undertakes in different classroom respectively.
The United States
Be in the United States, each state proper motion makes public middle and primary school teach compendium, from elementary school one grade begins study to bear, the knowledge of the respect such as psychology of morality of bisexual difference, sex, sex; Junior high school is tuitional maturity of birth process, sex; Glamour of marriage of lay particular stress on of high school criterion, family, sex, homosexual, venereal, walk the street, the study of the respect such as sexual allergy, extend condom.
Can saying is as the age layer upon layer development, special human nature changes rationalize.
Finnish
Go up century at the beginning of 70 time, the gender teachs the education outline that entered Finnish middle and primary school, even nursery school also teach books formal sex even nursery school, relatively famous have " our body " , the parent can resemble telling " 1001 night " tell everyday in that way.
More than 30 years past, finnish sexual education obtained the result that attract worldwide attention, be cultivated to be example by world population and development conference.
Still district of a lot of states carried out corresponding sex to teach books and course, the wanting that content measure does not issue than our country is small, even some is bigger.
We feel scale is large, because we are going with the eye of an adult,be look upon.
And what the child often did not think is so much, so dirty.
The child is pure, in him it is a piece of white paper when, just help him the most easily form him viewpoint of value. Some parents always feel: This kind of thing, was brought up the child understood with respect to oneself. Are we also such coming over?
But just thinks peace keeping way this kind just is the most dangerous.
It is under this kind of confirmed thought, after the campus sex that has how many adult invades case happening, still chose to do a silent kid.
Be taught because of what they accept as a child even if " the gender is evade " , good after pouring out not easily, also get likely " is that a teacher only open a fun with you " , " be a teacher care you? " wait such reply a moment.
The Chinese is right quality, the bounds that annoys to the gender is still ambiguous, because the obstacle of mentally and powerless feeling are right,the behavior of the person that annoy also is existing huge is good-tempered, make the victim cannot say clearly thereby " not " . Feeling likely still even is his problem, do I think too much? Does the dress that is me dress up too exposed too?
Accordingly, below the case that defends a gender to annoy a mechanism to still be not perfected in campus, the victim learns ego to protect no time to delay.
So if encounter campus sex is annoyed / the gender is encroached, how should do?
Face campus sex to annoy, a lot of people stem from face successful perhaps finish school, win the consideration such as graduate, and chose submit to humiliation, but this is the arrogance in abet malfeasant undoubtedly.
Probably you are OK so do:
1. is sturdy and say explicitly " not "
After be annoyed by campus sex, must sturdy and refuse explicitly. No matter the other side is the member that your teacher still guides, do not feel " bear temporarily calm " , if hinder the word at feelings, can use compare utterance of sweat and agreeable to refuse. But avoid by all means is silent and be partly compliant, the other side can become aggravated.
2.Leave evidence, the chance that does not give others him menace
If manner hind makes clear in oneself, the other side still nots comply not forgive, can record next frequency, take testimony. Before the other side puts forward not to undertake sexual behavior does not give graduation evidence, do opposite party to police station first, also be very experience of bright.
3.Give oneself hope
Some things, what actually consequence imagines without you is so serious. The result that the person that annoy wants is you because of fear and dare not take action. Want bravely exercise law to gift so your right, let hellion receive due penalty.
Put on one piece finally " forge " picture, hope everybody can have the consciousness that protects his, with the powerful mechanism that is protected, still have dare to phonate after be harmed, safeguard him rights and interests, continue to give birth to the courage of subsist well.
Hope everybody can transmit the article, let more person see, make a few effort to change this situation and limit.
For the child.
Referenced content:
Happy learn education: Is scale of our sexual education chrestomathy large? See abroad how be done!
Netease news: Is experience campus sex annoyed, how does the gender invade us to should do?
