Everybody is good, I am piece of wild goose contain, master a bit psychology, can let us learn to get along with oneself better, also can have run oneself duty field and life, let oneself can become real life to win the home.
An issue that should discuss next is duty field in the center a very important also part, call mood management. Actually you can be in this topic of a lot of, include to groom class or what respect can be heard rarely, because the person of our much feels on-the-job what to the most important among field is? It is my working ability, next the ability that I solve a problem, wait a moment next, but its implementation is in also more and more people notice, among on-the-job field the management of the mood to oneself also is a very special and important category, I put forward a concept to come from namely here want the very active mood to oneself to be in charge of at you.
What makes be in charge of actively to his mood? Because you observe slightly,can discover we are major the person's mood happens, outside notting have it is to come from at so called objective certain person, the some that perhaps happens the thing aroused myself to perhaps annoy sad perhaps envious perhaps or such a series of the happening of the mood, be in charge of actively to oneself mood is to come from the government that should have very powerful ego sentiment at you and adjustment ability, mr. Na Yanhan has a class to call duty field affection business government, there can be one share focal point to describe the mood government that how does ego in the center, you can learn it.
Truly gentle mood ability makes you own very good human concern, gentle mood, everybody must remember this word is called gentle, because of on-the-job field in the center, we can discover the condition of so called mood of two kinds of special sockdolager, one kind says disposition is very straight, what be we cry in the society? Call ignition to be worn.
Disposition of this kind of person sent him to also do not have a thing, but can let the person all round very get hurt, a word that he often says is, are not cared about, my this person such. In fact it is OK that I want to say you such, but you such result you can bear, because a lot of people may choose to say, I know you are such, I include you, but more and more people can have future a kind of concept is I include by what you, because person of so called support of the people is equal, it is why I want one and again again and 3 ground include the termagancy of your disposition or often fit is waited a moment etc, this is the mood type of the person with a kind of straighter disposition.
What is still having a kind of person? Be called indrawn tolerance. It is you likelihood from him apparently look he is very gentle, but this is a false appearance, because these people do not want particularly,oneself human relation produces conflict, when so he can choose to should contradiction perhaps should have a few dispute to happen, meeting batter sex depresses him, it is I was borne, I do not argue with you, but the person that more terrible is this one type is returned may break out such mood to family in the home, if he connects family not to break out, that more be afraid, it is the kink that he can be immersed in one each body, even depressed, so now why a lot of people are depressed very tall hair, come from the exit that does not have drain at our mood namely, because of the mood its essence is a kind of energy, so energy needs a balance, so we run a side in the mood of ego is to need to go concentrate one's efforts, let him enter likelihood slightly fluctuant, because everybody cannot be one linear, I forever so stable, unless you live to cave inside, that still can have fear possibly.
It is besides this, major person can have a sentiment, but we can maintain it like be in to had blown surface like gentle breeze, small wave motion, is not like offing at every turn a situation full of danger, have eddy next, have a such state of this kind of very tall storm next, that such word, it is to have to a kilter of your human relation very powerful those who help strength.
The 2nd likelihood for somebody, then I am doing the thing that the mood has a few shortcut above this management to perhaps say how I can pay close attention to my mood, because of some moods everybody has this experience certainly, it is I also do not want to get angry, but I every nod me to be not controlled to certain, this mood jumps out, oneself send disposition also very regret, feel to seem to ought not to say very heavy word with the colleague, hurt others not carefully perhaps, I do not live with respect to control.
In this so the key is nodded, it is teacher of wild goose contain teachs everybody a way, come from the disposition characteristic that should analyse oneself deep at you namely, go finding oneself, what are we called? Call a mood crucial point, what calls a mood crucial point, you can discover the issue of some type, want to stimulate you only, you can break out, the mood that is you then is bit more crucial.
Cite the case of a friend e.g. me, he is common you go sneering at he is one sentence, open him a fun, actually you discover he returns disposition to had been held out, but I discover accidentally once, because cross bridge pass by to expend,need to make ready money namely, I took 100 fund ready money then from him, I say to turn round I return you, but the likelihood spent a month, because 100 money also are not a too large number really, I may be busy forgot. He sent a small letter very grouchily to me one day, he says, when do 100 your money return me, you how can so talk not count, I am frightened really at that time foolish.
Because actually he should be body home to pass the person of 100 million really, I discover he is right money how so sensitive, I observe him later all behavior mode, it is him to small not these satirize of character are satiric need not dispute, but he soaks money namely particularly sensitive, meet the person that produces a mood, the mood that this is him is bit more crucial.
Still have a few people, the case that I cite myself is good, I am not Chang Bumin to feel to money, it is occasionally others may want to return my money, I can say, had I borrowed you? Send the person's thing off e.g. me, I also not quite retain this responsibility, but it is more important that my this individual meets the likelihood to see esteem see esteem, come from namely at if I experience others moment of insufficient to me valued, I can observe myself heart is met uncomfortable, likelihood everybody is different, some people are likely the issue closes other sides, he can have show effect.
So you should search him observation, be under what state is particularly easy the sentiment that arouses you, should nod that mood key look for it, you should observe it exists, think of specific means goes adjusting next, can let you be in major while so, maintain the mood with photograph gentler contrast.
The 3rd wants those who tell to follow everybody is to come from why should maintain a gentle mood at us, respecting wants inside this actually a crucial word, make the safety of human relation. Because actually safe feeling is a person most a demand of the foundation, we are in any environment, include any among field region, actually of the person subconscious in the center, the first demand is the demand of safe feeling forever.
Of course this safe feeling also is class having a layer, for instance the first is to come from at life safety I assure, above over the likelihood has a few assurance e.g. corporeal data, that again above a bit, it is whether I am admitted by a group, allow, have good interactive concern even, this safety that is called human relation is spent. So we pass the observation of many case and summary discovery, those itself disposition are active and hopeful, at the same time very condescending, gentle, very the person that is happy to help a person, his human relation special good, that is to say the safety of his human relation is spent special tall, when he encounters difficulty, a lot of people are willing to help him, even he appeared a few careless mistake when, somebody is willing to stand to speak and assume responsibility for him.
And we say in what what tell at first those may get angry at every turn, or everyday very depressed, see the issue is very negative, can give wrong person in the judge on others body forever next, often be under such state, the understanding that won't get particularly much person supports and help.
If you think,be in so region of a field, there can be the state of a very safe human relation and good human relationship among duty field, so the mood to oneself, must try to manage, this is a very important part.
