On April 21, sichuan rice is easy, sunshine is beautiful, yang Shan of 27 years old is taking 3 sons to jump down from the bridge, ended 4 human life.
In posthumous papers, yang Shan says he lies everyday the brim that break down, too tired, maintain no less than going to really.
3 children often fall ill, want to run toward the hospital everyday, yang Shan does not have sunset night ground to take care of them, it is good to had not slept become aware.
Borrow for the room, the car is borrowed, cost of child medical treatment and tuition, the husband and mother-in-law everyday outer rush about, the heavy burden that takes care of the child falls in Yang Shan completely on one person.
"I do not bear really, after giving birth to twin, arrive now, I had not slept to be rectified night become aware. Of course this is the way that the mother must want, I not blame, often oneself bring 3 children I also can bear. But, although such, had made allowances for me truly without who. Come a few this years I lie everyday really the brim that break down. Come a few this years I lie everyday really the brim that break down..
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It is despair is mixed in Yang Shan's posthumous papers self-condemned. Family is in for the mother child 4 people are rushing about, she dare not break down more in the life, the choice depresses him.
What Yang Shan's tragedy tore apart how many adult is creditable, look to maintain his composure at ordinary times, dare not cry, dare not be troubled by, dare not break down more.
The tear that is gone back by hold back as a result, became a depression finally, final suicide became exclusive drain and disengagement instead.
The luxury of adult, not be the life forever how creditable, can have the freedom that can break down however.
Before paragraph time, a drunk wine men break down the video that cries greatly is warm show popular feeling.
Nanjing late night, a man that business suit change walks on, drink fuddle one's cap, paralysis was in on the ground.
He very be fed up with a dinner party, but to take order form, just accompanied a client to drink a cup another cup.
When the policeman discovers him, he is spat all over afflictive, still maintain a spirit to follow policeman apology hard:
"I am sorry. Bother you. I had said with my wife, my wife can receive my Da. My wife can receive my Da..
The police is patted pat his shoulder, say: "Brother, irrespective, I understand. I understand..
"Do not have method, do not have method, do not have method. . . . . . ..
The man said 5 do not have method repeatedly, well of back leaving country hits him what go all out very helpless.
Even if is drunk pickledly, order also is not taken certainly get. Face life cruelty, he is to do not have method really.
The police bought a bottle of water to him, make him can bit more comfortable: "Mouth of the paste that raise the home is not easy, I understand. I understand..
Right now, the wife runs, demur does not say, genuflect is holding husband in the arms on the ground.
At that time the puke that husband is on the ground, but her where canal got these.
Husband cries suddenly so that resemble a child, broke down: "Darling, I am sorry, I was not used. I was not used..
The wife does not have any blaming, just knocked his head.
"Do not say this, do not have a thing. Do not have a thing..
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The netizen expresses in succession, break down abreact came out, really good, true envy.
How this setting that break down is good.
Abreact pressure come out, somebody understands you, give you a bottle of water; Somebody is holding you in the arms, tell you to have nothing to do with.
Next, it is a brave man the following day.
Someone says, of adult break down, should be soundless.
But, do not make break down soundlessly, that makes depress.
Break down free, just be adult is the biggest release.
So called break down free, it is the dead acupuncture point that shows breaking down is adult no longer, however free. Adult can resemble rubbish same, at any time and place teem breaks down, without fear pressure, oneself and other won't ashamed, was over is a brave man the following day.
The life of adult
／ is ／ of ability not equal to one's ambition
Be in Hangzhou a crossing, because a boy cycles retrograde motion was barred by the policeman come down.
He follows a telephone call first that girlfriend calls explain: "Be such, my retrograde motion was caught by bike, go now not know clearly, you wait for me where. You wait for me where..
After hanging a phone, he throws the mobile phone suddenly on the ground forcibly, begin to cry greatly.
"My true good bad luck! I do this kind of thing for the first time, namely here urging me to go quickly all the time! I work overtime, I hurried back go occupied. OK, beg you, make me dry OK "
He says more excited more, respecting fell on his knees to the policeman directly finally.
"Want fine, want to make money, I admitted! Want id card, also give you! I beg you, let me go! Let me go!!
If do not go immediately, life of groups of small feeling was about to be finished.
Say him to draw out an Id to give a police directly, cry next, face about runs toward the direction of the bridge directly.
He breaks down to lake water howl, sit on the ground then, hold oneself in arms to sob in a low voice:
"I am mad, my pressure is very great! I work overtime at 12 o'clock, my girlfriend did not take the key to want me to send the key again! My girlfriend did not take the key to want me to send the key again!!
Than who the life of adult is easy without who, it is the most difficult to do not have, it is more difficult to have only.
Pressure accumulates more more, met oneself bury the bomb when an adventitious only.
In high-pressured time, adult can be boiler of a high pressure, will break down release, boil the congee that come out gift is nicer drink.
Of adult break down
／ is bit more how old thing ／
2018, " weekly of the first finance and economics " release " urbanite pressure findings report " , the person of 43.3% thinks pressure of their place susceptive has arrived greatly let him be unable to stand.
Since be unable to stand, that abreacts come out.
But, think of every time " break down harmful, break down very negative energy " , major person dare not break down, include me.
Brushed speech of a TED till me, the word of Kelly of Stanford university psychologist overturned my acknowledge:
"Those emphasize blindly, be being searched everyday and advocate the person of energy, person of negative negative energy, actually very terrible. Because true energy, come from we and the course that fail energy to get along originally. Come from we and the course that fail energy to get along originally..She dogs adult of 30 thousand United States full 8 years, study the pressure that these people get and healthy situation.
Study conclusion broke groovy thinking of everybody: Truly harmful, not be pressure itself, however we think " pressure is harmful " idea.
The person that those think pressure is harmful to health, meeting often insomnia, endocrinopathy, and cause cancer or heart disease, make finally dead risk increased 43% .
Contrary, bearing likewise great pressure, but the person that does not think pressure is harmful, compared with those pressure more diminutive, their dead risk even lower.
Be close to the adult that break down, crushing last their straw, not be that heavy pressure, the hold back that dare not send pressure release force however is bent.
Actually, pressure is harmless, release, all over the body is light.
In high-pressured society, it is euqally normal to cry and laugh, break down resemble going to work dozen of card is euqally groovy.
Break down free, it is the agreement that special solution approachs between adult:
"Break down bit more how old thing " the tacit understanding that is grown world.
When you are not maintained, how does understanding manage so that the ground abreacts to come out, need not squeeze a smile forcedly to say to do not have a thing, also do not need to hide.
Break down suddenly when you, sit when roadside cries, somebody tells you: Break down of it doesn't matter, it is good that cry out comes.
You abreact after pressure, after the event won't regret, do not feel lose face, feel only, all over the body is light.
Face another person break down, passerby also won't cast bizarre eye again, netizen also won't what ballyhoo breaks down is lamentable.
Break down harmless, flimsy not ashamed, flee the talented person that break down lamentable.
The person that dares to break down, struggling route just goes solidly.
Of adult flimsy
／ is not ／ of dead acupuncture point
2017, piao Shulu makes item of first gear music, before sing, he said so a word: "Some moment feel the life resembles purgatorial and same, particularly provoking. Particularly provoking..
Next, sing half, he breaks down cry greatly, choke up with sobs.
He was touched to cry by song already, it is the life condition to oneself broke down more.
He does not think the abnormal viewpoint of value that encircles to music compromises, but still should make money raise a group, it is the life to rush about.
He states confusing of singing in antiphonal style is very sorry, but oneself are to be not maintained really.
And in masses heart, they like Piao Shutan namely dew is flimsy, straight face is flimsy.
Lu Yu has said so a word: "I understand why to so much person can like Piao Shu eventually, besides the song Orphean besides, mainer reason is there is a kind of particularly commendable thing on Piao Shushen -- flimsy. It is Piao Shu's fatal attraction flimsily. It is Piao Shu's fatal attraction flimsily..
The straight face that is Piao Shu is flimsy, just drew up so much the song that plunges into a heart, plunged into the pain spot of Everyman heart.
However, too much person is in the life not dare straight face is flimsy, because too much success learns " go all out in work " apotheosis.
They are in advertise, go all out in work must firm, strong person cannot break down, break down on behalf of you very flimsy, it is very abashed thing flimsily.
Go all out in work right, firm and right, but, misunderstanding is flimsy and wrong.
Does American sociology teach cloth beautiful jade? Braun put forward to overturn first the conclusion of people thinking: It is kind of force flimsily.
Not be your dead acupuncture point flimsily, however your force.
In the investigation that is as long as 6 years, cloth beautiful jade discovers, it is disgrace and scared germ flimsily, it is the germ that we struggle for self-worth, but the fountainhead that it is joy, creativity, attributive feeling, love at the same time.
While the depression is flimsy, you also give bury love rise.
You learned how to protect your before firm stiff dough; However, you also learned to defend before good thing at the same time oneself. You also learned to defend before good thing at the same time oneself..
Accordingly, cloth beautiful jade thinks, we face flimsy optimal way, either paralytic, negative with repulsion, experience it however, be thankful it, admit it, as concomitant as it.
Do not want a depression to break down, debus our mask, let us be seen, even if is flimsy one side.
Rush about everywhere for the life we, it is a soldier, we are very brave.
But, true soldier is not fearless, however what you can admit you in instantly is flimsy, orthoptic of your heart flimsy.
You go all out to rise, in the meantime, you also cry, remembered, abreact break down and not lamentable.
Break down free
／ lets off him, help sb to fulfill his wishes others ／
Implementation breaks down free, have two kinds of show:
It is to let off oneself above all.
Break down beneficial, be not maintained, want to cry, want to abreact, break down not ashamed.
Before we are breaking down, meeting him feeling lives in darkness, if your save one's breath, set sb's teeth, break down silently, who can see you? Cannot see you, how to hold you in the arms?
Give the person that wants to hold you in the arms a chance, you can cry before them, they do not think you do Achillean person, do not think your changes in temperature knows oneself more.
It is the freedom that breaks down to others next, give them the space that break down.
In the subway mouth of the late night, the person that regular meeting of my friend classics sees business suit change is walked on stays over to cry, she can write piece of encouraged scrip, hand he, pat next pat his shoulder, leave silently.
Can write normally on scrip, want to cry aloud, it doesn't matter, it is good that cry out comes, I do not disturb you, but I support you.
She wants to take a space that break down to them, also break down to future oneself leave.
It is OK also that one day he broke down cry over at any time, everybody can feel normal only, won't wondering.
It which since everybody admits the world of adult,have is easy that which since everybody admits the world of adult,have 2 words, so everybody can be executed tacitly break down free little agreement.
Next time you see on the street the person breaks down when, do not take a mobile phone to pat him, fasten those who disturb him to break down time, leave piece of scrip to him, tell him somebody is supporting him to go.
The Chun Shuceng on the village passes via saying so a word:
"You should be written down those darkness are mediumly hold firmly silently your person, stop the person that you laugh at, accompany the person that you chat all night, take a car to see your person, accompany the person that you had cried, your person is accompanied in the hospital, always be the person that attachs most importance to with you, taking the person that you loaf about everywhere, say to miss your person. It is the warmth that these people comprise the every little bit in your life, it is these warmth make you are far from haze, it is the person that these warmth make you become goodness. It is the person that these warmth make you become goodness..Break down free, let adult be waited for by goodness and tender photograph.
