Be brought up slowly as the child and the change of surroundings, they can encounter different problem, issue amount is increasing also, before mom glad vanish completely already, begin to enrol cannot sustain slowly, some problems make mom is immersed in the condition that be in a dilemma even, become impatient gradually rise, deal with at will even " deceit " the child.
A lot of parents mirror: The question that the child asks is very much very dull, I very understand, but ask just think, he is a child only, do you hope he goes asking a few nobel prize problem? The silly question in your eye is in child heart may not. So how should be we done?
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One, the query that the parent should be encouraged and listens attentively to the child. Can explore together with the child below the premise that affecting safety and morality.
"Mom, what is this? What is this??
"This is balsam pear. "This is balsam pear..
"I had not seen hey, delicious? Delicious??
"Hard, mom does not like to eat. Mom does not like to eat..
"Be? I want to try hey, ? ??
". . . . . . Good. Mom accompanies you to buy this, with respect to this oh, mom does not like really to eat. Mom does not like really to eat..
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2, the question that raises to the child, the parent is not eager to making known one's position, and should introduce the child to the discussion to scientific question for chance with this, not perfunctory to the condition that does not know, seek correct solution together with the child.
Son: Mom, why can Aoteman fly?
Mom: Because he is preterhuman ah.
Son: That why can bird also fly?
Mom: Have wing because of them.
Son: Last father bought wing of a pair of toys to me, but do I fly not to rise?
Mom: Seem to be concerned with the aerodynamics, this I also am not very understand, we go checking examine.
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3, all sorts of phenomena in often letting the child observe reality lives, arouse study interest of the child.
"This biscuit visits mother well, can you buy a packet to go back? Can you buy a packet to go back??
"Do you like? "Do you like??
"Be, what does he call the name? What does he call the name??
"Abstruse -- benefit -- abstruse, will say 3 times with mom, next we just are bought, be written down so that next secondary and mom say the name just can give you to buy "
"Abstruse -- benefit -- abstruse, abstruse -- benefit -- abstruse, abstruse -- benefit -- abstruse, mom, come home can teach me again, I fear I forgot. I fear I forgot..
"Good! "Good!!
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4, the creation that notices to protect the child is enthusiastic.
"Mom, why is the leaf green? Why is the leaf green??
"Because of him there are a lot of chlorophylls inside body. "Because of him there are a lot of chlorophylls inside body..
"Where is the leaf that has blue then? "Where is the leaf that has blue then??
"This can beat mom, do we get online together had looked up? Do we get online together had looked up??
"Good. "Good..
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Indeed, certain moment we come off work come home already very tired, I meet his problem partly temporarily also be not solved. This moment, I can crouch next bodies to look at his eye to tell him: Mom is very tired today, this problem mom also does not know the answer, you can ask father or grandma, or we are written down, will seek the solution tomorrow together, ? If cross him two days to ask again, patience and he seeks the solution together is.
Answer the child's question seriously, it is so difficult to have really?
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