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Serve as to be engineered from the senior game with old job, more and more parents ask my child net the question of addiction.
Must say a reality above all, commercialized network game, all without exception is designed to let a player indulge.
Indulge to let a player, the homework that we do wants to be gotten deep than each parents much, this is the antagonism that a dimension spends far from, so but the feeling that is most parents.
Regard a game as the plan, this is my job, but as a parent, my son also reads elementary school, but he did not become addiction to game however. My method is below.
The parent wants decorous attitude
A lot of ask me, regard game as the plan, does your son play not to play game?
A lot of parents had asked me this thing, interesting is my bout still encounters a kin to say: You make game this, still let him son also play game, how you think?
Want to let the child cast off network strong interest really, of parenthood oneself want decorous attitude above all, if become game only,do great scourges, do not go understanding deep, escape to be able to make a thing bigger and bigger only.
My son plays game of course, not only play to him, I still buy better game to let him experience.
When you experience is jumped over too much, elementary to jumping over stimulation is not sensitive, the person's threshold value will be higher and higher, become to inferior quality game gradually do not catch a cold.
Prohibit it is not actual that the child plays game, but can choose appropriate game to let him experience, the game churchly of high quality does not want than book little.
Wang Zherong boasts he also plays, but to him more resembling is a gregarious tool, he feels not to need to rely on Wang Zhecai to be able to acquire socialization and self-identity move gradually.
A lot of people originate to the growth of experience the age, but between such too beautiful take time, becoming you to help his experience what cross is better thing, elementary stimulation is right him with respect to no point.
I also have in one's childhood " TV is ill " , my pa sees my from morning till night sees TV also sigh, this child should be over sooner or later, the thing that his a respectful form of address for an old person loves most now, go up namely the game platform of this locality plays dozen of play chess below mahjong, stop talking does not promote indulging thing.
The promotion of horizon, disclosure letting a person is very persistent in the past at favorite thing, it is a drop in the sea nevertheless.
Having tearinging open demand of solution Ma Siluo when the plan, how are esteem and self-fulfilment reflected in game when, parents just counts on the child abrupt him have one's ideas straightened out, resembling is catapult fires big gun.
Indulge the essence of game
You had thought, why can your child choose to play a game at the beginning?
Game is the result that complex thing consecution turns one one or two, a lot of plays a way designs of game result from the life, come from at human nature, just the architect gets regular design clearer than reality, feedback clearer, more the idea that understands thoroughly a player.
So the player can have the bright, contented, pleasure that came true in game, this is obtained hard in reality.
Commercialized network game, novice guiding is a very important segment.
Simple for, design rife detail object namely, let what the player follows the prescribed order reach, offer promotive course, in order to achieve the goal of begin game.
It is to let your son learn a thing likewise, game plan costs a few months to come to each link for index with data normally burnish, arrive greatly whole technological process, small to a pushbutton, it is for you the son can continue to play.
Believe the architect is professional, have the patience that most parent does not have.
This index, passing line is to make sure the player of 40% above can go up again the following day commonly line, we call morrow keep. Identical still have 7 days of keep, say so why game often has 7 days of register one's attendance at a meeting or at an office, or 30 days of sign in.
I decided a novice that go to school to guide likewise to my son, just attended English class in 3 grade when, I need him to pass a test,examination,etc. only, the pin money that rewards his month turns over times.
Their class does not fail to 6 people only, he is very relaxed achieved a goal, I cashed to him immediately award.
In game industry we are in charge of this to cry head fill, need to charge a cost only a few money, can enjoy multiple the award that charges a cost at you. Because we discover, want to had charged the player of money only, fill the 2nd the 3rd probability very tall.
The player needs to be guided from beginning to end, leave game very easily otherwise, the child is same also.
Login like 7 days, for instance you got on every sports season gold paragraph a heroic skin that sends you.
Every time target need not too difficult, too difficult conference is just the opposite to what one wished, carry the picture cake that stabilizes in each - finish - in rewarding the pulmonary circulation that draws cake again, let a person be in from beginning to end pursuit.
Cash after award, I ask he takes 70 minutes, besides pin money, want him to be willing to remember a few words everyday only, I can be willing let him play game a little while everyday.
Once he entered this loop system, achievement ameliorates is a result only.
Guide the child's skill
[Label law]
There are many parents to find me before, the son that says me indulges game, but when I ask you the son is playing what game, 10 inside nine does not know.
Be like my son to like to take a course, but this dish I however never heard of before, also did not know how to start.
Change the child to play game this thing comes up, the parent feels game is too fierce be at a loss what to do, still do not understand it substantially actually. Everybody knows the truth that the bosom friend tells the other, can be nobody knows the first pace wants how to be done, I stress a few skill below.
The first pace: Stick label.
People allergy others sticks label to oneself, but often can stick label to oneself, this is one defines his tweak quickly.
For instance my Mom, what I define to her is middleaged, dance of mother, emeritus, square, small town.
Carry these a few tag, retire in the aunt aunt that the gregarious scope that can suspect her about is square dance and village before work in the same place, and kin of each brother sister.
You can discover, light looks " mother " be not to look to give information content, contact is between label, label is more, jump over the can accurate characteristic that defines a person.
For rich my mother is happy, I take the year before last year parents went growing beach island, over there low spending, fresh fruit and clean beach make a person special enjoy, but my pa Mom more those who enjoy is after going back to the motherland, mix of kin friends talk endowment.
This time of journey going abroad, in their circle, became heart having filial piety, class to tall, meeting is enjoyed and live contented and rich pronoun. The gregarious and cheerful feeling on this kind of place, it is I choose southeast Asia for them the reason of this time of journey.
As the plan, we stuck a lot of label to the player, for instance 2 dimension, athletics, 90 hind, gregarious. We are chosen through label, who can become the player of our game after all, pay for us.
The word says, if I let you stick label to your son immediately, you may discover pair of his utterly ignorant, besides say he indulges game, do not love to learn beyond.
The means that uses label tears open solution a thing, find out the connection inside, you the know exactly about sth in understanding.
My small cousin is read this year first 3, it is I am looked at grown, parental gene is good, the person has grown a meter 8 make the same score with me inspect. I discover she is playing when the Spring Festival king person honorable, she still disappears to play when summer vacation, now already do something one knows well.
Key junior high school, love beautiful, result is right, this is my label to her, first is the pressure of 3 not little how does she have the mood to play game?
Later her group a good friend, I discover paragraph even lower than her, group his reason, because,be actually " he grows good-lookingly " .
I know she indulges probably Wang Zhe's problem was in.
The student has a very important ticket, it is frequent face-to-face social behavior, this is to be formed easily love, small group or vie psychological place.
Wang Zherong boasts is the gregarious tool of she and this good-looking schoolboy only.
I am so small the aunt is fearing she can indulge when Wang Zhe checks not superior high school, my criterion is fearing she is love, I just got a ticket more, the problem can search more essence of life is accurate.
Besides stick label beyond, we return what otherwise breaks to replace his label.
It is good that we know a label is bet, wealthy person, can enter gambling house next, but have a deficit when him after light, had turned into to bet when doing not have money again, what can he do?
Label is increasing, we are OK faintly sees next trend, and where is the germ of the problem after all.
[Penalty and promotive law]
The castigatory means of a lot of parents places him very easily in the child's contrary.
How to punish the child, simple for, do not take away the thing that belongs to him himself namely.
There is a common sense in game design, the plan did not achieve a goal because of the player scarcely, and him already some things are taken away will serve as penalty, it is promise is rewarded instead, you reached ability to obtain.
Penalty is a serious issue to a child, in game we seldom also punish a player, even if you play again soddenly, we can tell you: You play well, still the following kinds of method can let you become stronger.
If my son is punished repeatedly, he can feel this thing does not suit me, he can escape every day boast goes in his very fierce comfortable area, and this often is game.
And how to reward the child, simple for, discretion wants when sending a son the thing.
Above all game is engineered forever won't secretly or ground of for no reason at all sends you the thing, remembering with concern from beginning to end rear your what, no matter be to expect you go up more route it may not be a bad idea, expect you want to fill fund it may not be a bad idea, and before large award is sending, can draw a cake first, telling you to want to obtain is conditional.
The specially good effect that award jumps out forever cruel dazzle has ceremonial feeling, hope you remember we are good to yours, let your mood understand excitedly, we reward you this, we do not owe you.
If you give the child's award,be considered as manage place by him should, he perhaps can can not afford newest IPhone because of which days, you are blamed when canning not afford wanted car too door passing cut.
So what can we reward to give the child?
We can send child mobile phone, game the access of machine, dishini swims two days, new fund sneaker a pair, perhaps buy a game to him also just as well, will decide with financial capacity. But give plane of mobile phone, RMB, sport to be no good directly.
It is good that we should cast its place, but want to remember, these award have to be nodded jointly, have scope of application namely, the RMB does not have the award of scope of application namely, you do not know he is assemble is worn buy a mobile phone, in still consuming game, play, it can come true him all targets.
Promotive purpose is it can let a son obtain brief joy, satisfy his certain requirement, but did not have in the past, next target is before.
Epilogue
Game design is very complex, the burnish that a game often is nearly 100 people just is able to appear, it is a gather that was full of weakness of sex of benefit choose and employ persons, be not in a few words to be able to analyse its.
But the parent counts on the child suddenly have one's ideas straightened out, perhaps hope to concern a section one sealed, it is special not actual, because this can not solve the problem that he indulges, help the change on his germ the most likely, it is a family.
The promotion of horizon, disclosure letting a person is very persistent in the past at favorite thing, it is a drop in the sea nevertheless. The fractionation of the target and build, let what the person can perserve hold to.
The label that tear open solution lets you find indulge the prime cause of game, reward and punish, guided balance is found to nod in relaxation.
Play is such, life why is not such.
Has experienced person can understand this reason, just some of person paid heavy price in the process, opposite at counting on game company, parent yourself is person of best lead the way.
