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On September 18, because press down divorce dispute case on one case, because the case is more complex, wait for relevant section mediation to cannot mediate a success via pressing down police station, the Women's Federation, judicatory to mediate place. Classics county the Women's Federation invites, I and go to the countryside of leader of the Women's Federation of county of be accompanying of a lawyer undertake relevant mediation works, in whole mediation process my benefit is not little, also gained many experience, want to be shared with everybody here so.
Both sides of party men and women marries 10 old, have 13 years old of sons, 9 years old of daughters, 2017 woman sicken, during contradiction happens in cure disease...
After happening as a result of acerb contradiction, man parents forbids the woman to come home, intense limbs conflict produces with man parents when the woman is taking a relative to reach man home, woman relative releases conflict video in broaden the scope of net admiral thing.
Why can you appear to be mediated this? Because the man divorces stoutly, the woman does not want to divorce.
My individual comprehends:Above all, do not want will contradictory broaden the scope, especially the contradiction between husband and wife, can the important matter changed little petty thing is to settle the way with contradictory and best family. The condition that why meets occurrence man divorce stoutly? Feel because of the woman and relative oneself are justifiable namely, put conflict video to the net, spread family scandal a thousand li to make the man intolerable.
Since the woman you do not consider a divorce, the video that why produces when producing conflict lets family hair go to the net? Be worth to think!
Next, do not let a relative (include father and mother) participate in dispute of feeling of husband and wife too much. In process of this case mediation, woman mother and little brother are soberer still, but the woman's aunt is in all the time however with " hold in the arms dozen rough " the manner is in and the man is reasonable say the thing copies old meal. My experience tells me, after marital conflict reachs certain level, each oneself family arrives finally is to slant those who help oneself.
Finally, from this case I still should say here: Encounter difficulty to maintain common heart to be treated calmly, believe difficulty can go eventually, do not enlarge contradiction, believe difficulty can be overcome eventually.
When the divorce is inevitable, you need known a few things and thing:
Above all, belongings him detailed list in the home wants to be clear about, especially the fund in the home is big income and expenses. For example: Project of room, car, business, partnership.
Next, the thing that oneself do not know does not count on someone else to be able to help you be checked. In this case, the woman manages even oneself old restaurant to do business single-handed charter is written so that He Ren name cannot decide, more do not promote the other industry that makes in the home. Fortunately this man is magnanimous person, without move belongings also did not conceal belongings.
Probably, what bilateral party can handle the issue is better, so contradictory so won't big;
Probably, did not call somewhat as kin of some one party " hold in the arms dozen rough " , what the thing won't go is beyond recall;
Probably, did not do the business after contradiction expands big, their feeling won't burst;
This case has been done not have probably, the contradiction that hopes everybody does not encounter individual marriage and family only is put to the network to beg a what is what blame, so inextricability contradiction, can reach contradiction the degree that cannot mediate only.
