We know present living conditions is better and better, can say every family is comparatively well-off life, can say to be exceedingly rich on corporeal respect.
Especially the parent is teaching a respect is exceedingly easy more, but a lot of parents are right,the child's pin money always is taken however forbid, do not know otherwise wants how to much perhaps give to child pin money appropriate.
Actually about pin money a lot of parents are special kink, what give after all is little be no good, those who give is much fear him child cannot control him again, spend money in disorder.
Pin money this problem is a lot of parents headache particularly, and some parents think child age is small still, do not have a concept to money, need not giving pin money so also is possible, but is the parent done so be opposite really?
Parents does not give the child pocket money, the child makes this issue unexpectedly
Tao Tao this year 8 years old, go up elementary school 2 grade, special at ordinary times and lively lovely, although study result is not exceedingly good, but quite good in class relations with people, teacher and classmate are especially other like him.
Although Tao Tao is the singleton inside the home, but the parent however all along not be used to is worn him, can say special to him severity, condition of Tao Tao family is pretty good still, but parents does not give Tao Tao pin money however.
At the beginning the father and mother that Tao Tao also has asked him, why other child has pin money, and I am done not have, ke Taotao's parents says your age is so small however, do not buy what thing again, what to want pin money to work?
At the beginning Tao Tao's special life, but was used to later also asking, until one day Tao Tao sees other classmate classeses are over bought a very popular toy, oneself also want exceedingly, classes are over so came home to say this thing to mom.
But Tao Tao's mom says however, you are main now be study, play what toy, do not have to learning a bit help, tao Tao sees mom so say special afflictive, oneself just are to want a toy just, later no matter how Tao Tao says, mother does not agree namely. Tao Tao is very disappointed.
After reaching the school midday, see classmates bought this toy, oneself are to like too really too wanted, thought of a method, also be this idea within an inch of destroyed Tao Tao.
The way that original Tao Tao thinks comes home namely the money that steals parents, classes are over after coming home, tao Tao sees father has not come off work, mom is cooking in busy move, tao Tao is so smooth into the room, turn over mom's purse, stole 100 money, arrived to go to school the following day give the toy directly bought.
Was discovered by Tao Tao's parents later, parents criticized Tao Tao badly, from now on later Tao Tao becomes not talktive.
When to give the child pin money best?
Generally speaking the child is going up be about after elementary school child pin money, because learn school doorway to have supermarket, a small shop attached to a school, after school hard to avoid won't shop, after 7 years old so the parent is about child pin money.
What should notice when the parent gives the child pin money?
One: Do not want to give casually
Cannot how much should the child give the child, must right amount, adopt the promotive child with a few good proper performance of the child.
2: Do not compensate the child with pin money
Do not want the child not to think feigned course of study gives money or grouch also give money, it is incorrect so, meet bad child of be used to.
The parent does not give the child pin money, but also do not give more, given appropriate ability is the most important.
Parent of anyhow pin money is in the child's appropriate age must give, what cannot give is too much but what also have to give or give is too little, want a foundation the pin money of friend classmate gives out all round the child an appropriate numerical value, parents also must not feel the child had money to be able to become bad, actually this also is a kind of education that watchs to child money.
I am candied mom, it is division of infant of an advanced Yo, also be the mom of 4 years old of darling, in Yo any problems that encounter in the process can ask me, hope my a bit proposal can help you solve the trouble in the process that bring child and quandary.
