Hello, thank your invitation! I am KOL of division of advanced Yo infant, Mu Ying blessing forest mammy, very glad to can answer your question.
Saw a movie recently " why be the home " , let my for a long time cannot be at ease. Assist favour sues the young hero inside oneself parents, because " they gave birth to me " , see those who cross film know, although the parents of assist favour gave birth to assist favour, but the assist favour of discipline of small off year is only for the parents to him " servile " , they let assist favour do a lot of jobs to come allowance family expenses, oneself however all the day faineant. When living without method in husband, they still sold their one's own the daughter even.
On the court, the mom shout of assist favour: "My this lifetime is servile, dare you still criticize me? You have what right to criticize me, do you have me this kind of place? " be, life hardship, but since know hardship, since know oneself let the child live not hard life without method, why be delivered of them even?
"Be born and do not raise " , gave birth to the child, become child nominal father and mother, but use up the liability that becomes father and mother without one second however, to the child, the had broken away from oneself possibly momently then parents that they are born. Because they do not have the tender feeling that has felt parents, and it is endless inhospitality is mixed all the time destroy, advanced the child the abyss of the life.
This film produces the likelihood in Syria, the life that leaves us is very far, but don't have beside us " be born and do not raise " thing?
A news sees before: A mom gave birth to 3 children in those days, but because exceed,be born, then will year only young son of 1 year old sends raised others. And him old partner dies now, two sons business fails, the life is short of money, thought of that young son. Because of yearly salary of young now son 550 thousand, so this mom hopes he can assume the responsibility that has support, and the reason that give out is: I am poor, without method.
See this news, it is really very do not understand this mom, although you gave birth to him, but from the child after a year old, you also had not been in charge of him again, do not have even the care possibly even, why to live now because of you impoverished, come with respect to requirement child provide for you?
Common saying says: Unripe favour is inferior to raising favor is big, this word does not do not have reason, gave birth to the child without any consideration the child, so of the child what concerns later again with you? Resemble what say in the comment: "Yearly salary 550 thousand also be foster parent teachs well, have nothing to do with really with you! Have nothing to do with really with you!!
No matter be the assist favour that shape tells father and mother, still reject the son of provide for mom, they are facing a problem that puzzling their: Why be the home?
What is just the home? It is a living ground not just, it should be a place that is full of love, it is the place that an all the time considers to let a person perch, be no matter wind blows rain,hit the place that somebody gives you to prepare a bowl of powder. But apparent, the parents of assist favour did not give assist favour a home, that mom in news, also did not give young son a home, do not have even the home, how is saying to go up again family? How to let the child feel you are their parents again.Cannot give the child a home, push the child the abyss to the life even, such parents is not unqualified, do not deserve to do father and mother however. Assist favour says: "I hope to bring up the child's person feebly, fasten second birth " , but what I want to say is: "Did not love the parents of child ability, not unripe child. Not unripe child..
The child is born that momently, gifted parental identity, and parents what this identity bears the weight of is to give the child a home, one is full of the home of love, if be not done, hope you do not want second birth child.
If my answer is right you are helpful, pay close attention to @ please blessing forest mammy, recommend the Yo with economic fall to the ground for you everyday knowledge, accompany the child one case health grows happily.
