On May 4, shenyang lofty direct seeding says to want to visit his mother. I am a bit strange, other is in Shanghai, the mother also is in Shanghai, why to go to Nanjing doing direct seeding to tell an audience to want to visit his mother? Is that your mother? You want when to look, make an appointment with your mother even? Those who leave is so close, do not go back visit a mother, now and then go back, and need announces between direct seeding. With respect to this, doubtful really, your without the choice margin that reckons the vermicelli made from bean starch that is you forces, you just chose to see your mother one side. It is for ordinary common people, this is the business that does not pass normally again, why to take even show off?
You so do, can let a person feel only, shen Wei's mother how? Did not go back for years actually visit? Does he follow a mother how? Roam about 26 years, did not go back had visited? Perhaps be visited rarely? Does with parental relation insecurity or discontinuity parents concern? Most person wants to know a mother child meeting case. A such thinking are nimble, style of conversation is uncommon, be full of all over of energy Confucianism the support that learned Shen Wei of thought Great Master to get most person, also somebody criticises he himself disregards parental family chicly merely, try to please the public with claptrap. This is the common fault that the person of knowledge having a place often makes.
Shen Wei ever also had had an explanation to this, he used the dialog between Confucius and Ceng Zizhi to answer this question.
"Confucius ever asked Ceng Zi: ' if your father wants to hit you, how can you do? ' Ceng Zi answer says: ' hold the post of him to had been hit casually. ' Confucius says: ' it is incorrect so, if oneself are beaten dead, father is about to bear murder child accusation, this ability is a son is disobedient. ' "
Shen Wei borrowed this literary quotation to also explain, parents is right he actually not good, otherwise he roams about near unapt also doorway is in the home up to now.
But knowing is the pressure by force of public opinion or him to maternal give up not love, be in today May 5, shen Wei went the abode of old mother is visited already old mother of 83 years old.
It is to was not entered it seems that excellent in, shen Wei was grasping a hand to greet in door mouth and mother a few, two favor mood is done not have very excited, look at more resembling is a friend between meet. More old person of condolatory like a certain leader of condolatory group orphans and widows, manner is dye-in-the-wood. After passing, Shen Wei touchs the white hair of old mother full head with the hand, two people also hope the move is silent each other not language. Nevertheless more those who grab an eye is the gift in his hand.
Shen Wei embraced his old mother, still other people clew is finished. Although can see eye socket extensive of Shen Wei is red apparently, he restrains his mood in what do one's utmost. Be in all the time what concealing.
Shen Wei tells old mother to want to notice safety again later, people will look for her not to come down, do not say to know oneself. Old mother also is to answering one by one.
Also can see from this, there is estrangement really between Shen Wei and his mother, otherwise unapt also did not see 20 years however form the passerby that be the same as road is general. But in light of a series of expression from Shen Wei, of he or the old mother that be respected from the heart and loving oneself.
Also hope Shen Wei puts down kind and enmity, reflect energy, this ability is essential. Regression lives to communicate communication with old mother more normally, eliminate misunderstanding, after all " child be about to raise and kiss prep before " also not be the result that everybody should see for certain.
