From the child 4 months arrive 3 years old this phase, it is the important period that helps the child establish safe move. Establishing safe move on this thing, father of action serious offence, because the main target of child depart is mom. What if this phase child grows,transfer is good, the nursery school on him can be compared successful, also can rise independently as early as possible. How to help the child establish safe move? The following respects need to notice:
The first, since mom is in,this phase developed the child bigger effect, the mood government ability of that mom appears be of exceptional importance. This ability lets him mood retain stable ability namely. Not be glad to feel the child how good, grouchy see child where not pleasing to the eye, this meeting lets the child live in fear to mix all the year round in guessing, the mother that does not know below one second can present a what sample, of this safe to him feeling build have deadly destruction action. The mom with a stable mood, need to accompany only beside the child, observe what he needs, satisfy her next, follow of the child grow and grow.
The 2nd, a few more floriferous on the management that energy concerns in husband and wife. Harmony concerns intimately between parents, it is the child yearn for most in the heart, also be the thing that can bring him safe sense most. Because parents is his whole world, parental be on speaking terms, domestic atmosphere is good, the child is met relaxed joy. If parents often quarrels, always just perhaps censure or particular other one party, the child is met with fear to be accompanied, in gingerly in cannot establish safe move.
The 3rd, let the child do the business of in one's power. The chance that the child tries is more, he knows to make its bottom line more, his psychology jumps over know how things stand and feel confident of handling them. In working process, foster the palm to this world to accuse to feel step by step, the safe feeling of child heart and power move are built gradually.
