Like very much obviously but because fear to lose and do not think together, kind of what kind of ps

Like the other side very much obviously, but because fear,lose however, so the choice is not gone after do not be together, a kind of what kind of psychology is asking this? This kind of phenomenon, in actual life really not scarce, often also can listen those are lone beside oneself too long friend says, like TA, but lone still move, lest was lost, should suit afresh again lone.

Actually we know, such mentation goes against us to satisfy his requirement, also can affect oneself and other to build affinity.

So, on psychology, to such mentation, have view of a definition. Namely " affinity dread disease " or " affinity obstacle " , disease of dread of so called affinity or affinity obstacle, do not be a kind of disease, its basically are expression is for oneself in the association process of human relation go maintaining a distance painstakingly, can refuse as close as overly of a certain person, also can blend in a certain circle hard in the center. And the person that has this kind of case, they are not original idea does not like to be contacted intimately, even they can long to build an affinity with other, but the response is couldn't get after his feeling is paid or a lot of moment can fear again is to be harmed, caused oneself anxiety thereby, because of this in actual life, can go slowly evasive affinity.

A person can have " affinity dread disease " or be " affinity obstacle " , the factor that has a lot of possibility exists:

1. is in in letting oneself feel unstable domestic bad situation, grow, for instance childhood period, because constant regular meeting quarrels between parents and fear oneself are discarded, or be all the year round parents is not beside, after bringing about the process that grow accordingly, give very good safe sense without education, also reduced attaching demand slowly. Because this is in,affinity also can be built with other hard when growing up;

2. foregoing affinity, make oneself feel by harm. For instance advanced in a paragraph of affinity, oneself emotional sincerity is paid, the back betray that changes close boy or girl friend finally however leaves, because this own heart produced the shadow with undesirable affinity, go very hard also from inside this kind of shadow so, go in another paragraph of affinity.

3. suffers beside the true state of affairs or the influence that are shadow gut scene, cause oneself to do not have enough safe feeling to affinity.

4. lacks the skill of human association, because this does not know how to go as friendly as other get along, with how be built and had safeguarded a paragraph of affinity, aux would rather so the hour that keeps memory in happiness, also not be willing to have been to much sortie.

Altogether, we believe, of each paragraphs of affinity building is happiness, and place of relation both sides must do safeguard, such ability develops better go down. And blindly evasive with shrink back, often be to eat those who be less than good fruit.

Above. Wish the life is happy!