Not be your Mom feels you should marry you are about to marry. To modern, no matter schoolboy of male and female, own decision is in which age paragraph conjugal right. The likelihood looks in the person of one's elders, 25 years old did not marry even if compare serious problem, parents begins to read aloud to the child " the Incantation of the Golden hoop " . This has to invite person suspicion, am I I have a problem? When to marry after all appropriate?
Our country marriage law makes clear a regulation: Male 22 female 20 to marry lowermost age limit. Want male age to not be less than 22 years old only that is to say, female age is not less than 20 years old, can register marry, the marriage certificate that get.
But, as the change of rapid development of the society and life idea, the young men and women that marries in this age is less and less.
What age marries appropriate? I think to want to consider 3 factors: The body, economy, intelligence.
1. considers from body maturity angle
20--25 year old the gold period that is a woman, pass 25 years old to be able to present an one day comparing one day to decline, and rate is rapidder! But the schoolboy is different, the schoolboy is slower than schoolgirl development, after arriving 30 years old commonly, ability begins to decline, and speed wants a few slower! Additional, the ideal age of female life Yo should be 25 ～ 29 years old. Concerned expert thinks, body of our country woman the development of each organ system, want 24 ～ commonly 25 ability are completely mature. If be borne before the age here, affect the development of the mother's body and health not only, still can cause fetal growth undesirable. Of course, give birth to the first embryo too late bad also.
2. considers from economic base angle
Suit conjugal age, economic base also is crucial. Will tell commonly, the girl had a job to just can be economic independence, it is before two years when enter duty field to start period, stability of the ability after two years leaves successful word. Generally speaking, college graduate is about 22, 23 years old, after working two years 24, 25 years old, this moment just calculates base of economy having a place, most at least can feed him. If talk about love at that time, establish a family, the optimal age that marries namely. And the boy's responsibility should be weighed a few, be in commonly 30 the left and right sides, economic income can have the capacity that raises the home, 30 the left and right sides is a man first-rate marriage age.
The angle that 3. matures from intelligence considers
A wife that go throughall the vicissitudes of life says: "The young man student of heads of those 20 annual expenditure can be only play with you play just, he assures what lives to you impossibly and happy. Had not thought even him himself to before wanting to be in 30 years old, marry, calculate him to want to marry to also do not have postulate. " the man with old age is mature, have include heart, very few meeting and you are intense brawl, marriage will be so stabler. Young man student is antipodal, do not have method, youthful vital energy contains authority, who doesn't let, everybody refuses to obey who, brawl makes all in the day's work.
"Male strong female weak " , " male big female small " marital satisfaction is spent tall. So, usually, the woman is controlled in 25 years old, the hall that the man begins to walk into marriage in 28 years old or so can make marriage happier.
