Be asked to change shoe into the door, the feeling has kind of feeling that is looked down on, then, feel oneself deserve not to rise to arrive this again visit, compare in the heart complex, immediate impact arrives next communicate face-to-face.
Actually, in daily life, a lot of families are more exquisite, begin to change slipper into the door. When working because of outdoors often shoe the metropolis is dirtier, such doing, can retain a floor board not only clean, and after changing slipper, the double foot that also can allow oneself gets relaxation. But, I feel, if be oneself in the home, do so all the time, also had the pattern that oneself secure, for instance, pulled shoe, also can take off oneself sock, go again closet is washed wash a foot, nurturance a kind of habit, oneself are very willing also go doing, because such doing, to oneself, some is comfortable only, without the incommensurate feeling of other.
But, to the person that does not live in this family, take the door, be about to change the slipper of others, the n/med beriberi that is afraid of oneself again affects others, some people have athlete's foot inherently, wearing loafer, communicate and communicate what be afraid that oneself crural odour affects each other again, total meeting makes a person gutty and unwell feel.
In our home, ourselves often is to arrive home to change shoe, but the guest comes to my home, I do not ask to change a shoe, some guests ask actively to change, some oneself take off shoe to come in directly even, I signal need not, because I feel, since I ask the other side to come of purpose be a guest, had made the preparation of this respect, waited for a guest to go, I do sanitation again, give a guest comfortable sense as far as possible, only the guest feels Shu Xin, my invitation ability is significant, otherwise, violated the sense that entertain guests.
If I want to visit new other people actively, I myself can prepare man-to-man the shoe of second sex is covered, put on into him house
If stranger comes to my home, I also can ask the other side puts on one-time shoe to cover
If be I invite invitation guest actively, or the frequenter of my home, I do not ask to change a shoe to also do not ask to wear a shoe to cover, if the guest feels his shoe is too dirty, active demand, I can give man-to-man second the shoe is covered
