Xiaoqi gives birth to a child, the mother-in-law does not have time to take care of, xiaoqi's mom retires ahead of schedule take care of, the mother-in-law feels he cannot take care of daughter-in-law heart in compunctious, be willing some of fund idea make make up for, as a result the mom of Xiaoqi and little relative feels money is not to respect them. Actually, the act that this is kindness caused needless misunderstanding.
According to the tradition, daughter-in-law adds buccal have a baby born into the family for we, when confinement of mother-in-law serve Hou, the grandma takes care of grandchildren is the thing in reason, but the mother-in-law does not have time, daughter-in-law sympathizes with amount to manage to also understand, think as the mother-in-law confined unripe child is the important matter of lifetime, also be the important matter of oneself, cannot take care of daughter-in-law confinement heart in really compunctious, want to spend money as a last resort do made up for, hurt the heart of daughter-in-law and relatives by marriage however, the mother-in-law still appreciates mother of relatives by marriage come nevertheless, which have the reason that does not respect. It is a family, remove misunderstanding, understand each other, the mother-in-law's think of a way is very traditional, now child lonely people little, children is bilateral and mutual, mom waits for lonely of Hou girl month, taking care of grandson also is of course, mother-in-law can need not self-condemned or feel owing like the daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, the fine that also should understand a grandmother suffers from the intention. Do not misunderstand a mother-in-law to be not respected, should regard respect as, just let a person do not wish to accept just just. Want daughter-in-law conversion to think only, the angle that stands in the mother-in-law thinks the thing that the mother-in-law does, completely understandable this very busy mother-in-law, include magnanimous is goodness, understood to free oneself.
The family does not say two words. Understand banzai!
