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Life since ancient times much cross, be inferior to meaning thing nine times out of ten. By the cereal that falls into life when you, noble photograph is aided, it is very lucky and the business that is worth to cherish. When if be in,encountering setback and misfortune, by person look down upon, perhaps be willing to help you without the person, also need not blame everyone and everything but not oneself, cannot recover after a setback, because this is the normal of the life fitly, it is the one side with the truest sex of real world go-between.

Why so say? Because,this is:

"Nobody ask deficient house downtown area, rich there is distant relative in remote mountains " . The society follows pattern of value exchange of equal value. Be in when you downwind downstream when, can bring to other direct indirect perhaps advantage, also won't increase a trouble of at least to others most.

And once drop into the cereal bottom of life, you can give the help of others to have hardly, can need others to provide money instead or the help of the respect such as basic necessities of life, others feels to be able to increase a trouble to oneself, avoid not as good as. Have since ancient times so " perfect easy, provide timely help is difficult " view.

Number One Scholar of Ming Dynasty collect is in his " wake world poem " in, what describe to reality of this one society is very accurate:

Favor meets as first, how many able and virtuous in tired road.

Perfect the world to have, provide timely help is worldly without.

Yi Dejin comes when 1002, carry goes wine of difficult buy or sell on credit half crock.

Can sighs at the moment kin is friendly, whose person agrees do not have when aid is urgent.

Gentleman having a book is in young invest failure from time to tome, at ordinary times those eat and drink together, the friend that talks about the business together sneaks away between one night into thin air, experienced changes in temperature of a world really however, the ways of the world is hot and cold.

Because some people are embraced do not know sometimes cherish, eat and drink go whoring is betted, fight affray, even suck drugs. They are not to listen to other advice probably, or get dizzy with success. Get finally be heavily in debt, breaking up one's family.

This kind of person often fail to keep faith, ungrateful, to the help of family kin a bit does not have the heart that be thankful. The popular feeling grey hint that lets finally had helped him is thoroughly cold, disappointed, be willing to believe and help him no longer from now on.

Actual society star of a few movie and TV because privacy debaucjed or statements and actions is inappropriate, bring about a person to set collapse, forfeit act art career, drop into career cereal bottom all belong to this.

"The person that love goes out loves to return, blessing of the person that blessing is gone to comes " . Once gave the person that pass only, just pay off possibly. When your body is in life level road, if do not know help another person, make public is rampant miserly perhaps and evil, where is the help that when falling how possibly into life cereal bottom another person gets?

Contrary, those bodies handle suitable situation can good intentions, give the person of person rose, although fall into the cereal bottom of life, also can get beside of friend the real situation pass on.

Carry on one's shoulder dies because of accident of phreatic water accident on the west, 3 wool mood breaks down, did not give birth to the courage of subsist almost, and right now, carry on one's shoulder offerred 3 wool the help of each respect such as affection and money with the friend of 3 wool on the west, make 3 wool walk out of the predicament of the life finally.

Zhu Shijian is released from prison many years old 70, when the umbilical orange brand that decides him development, still can pass ten million of oneself character charm financing, make finally " Zhu Chen " be famous in the world, these example are frame-up explain, "Desire VIP is helped oneself, surely first personal side person " ?

Once the person declines cereal bottom, often accompanying asset indebted, go bankrupt, breaking up one's family, the life is not stable, the mood is not stable, the work is not steady, contradiction is big, thing blame is much wait for all sorts of problems.

The person of the help needs to have the settlement with stronger economic very strong perhaps actual strength the ability of the problem. So, a lot of moment are not other not to want to help however him ability is limited, can help feebly.

Besides, some person self-respect eager to do well in everything, do not seek a help to other easily, even if is he lives very hardly, let a person very hard also see need is helped.

The rise and fall since life falls, hard to avoid can have the trough of life, others helps the ties of friendship that you are others, also may be the accrual that you once were redound of bank of world of person goodness existence, because, side person is helped namely oneself. Others is not helped, it is the influence of others, should great review oneself, other of blame of and rather than, after all " fell want oneself to climb " , this world, most can reliable still is him.

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