How overcome psychologist place to say " dichotomy thinking " ?

How to overcome dichotomy thinking?

Guo Jingfei, those who hold out fire, watched his interview recently, he spoke of " of pair of " Su Mingcheng the view of this part.

He himself also feels Suming becomes this part very bad, very bad, even if such, su Mingcheng still very get wife and father and mother love, accordingly, he thinks Su Mingcheng is not absolutely bad, should meet have his unbeknown one side.

Guo Jing Feishun is worn this thought, found Su Mingcheng's lovely one side, and deduce come out.

Everybody looks " Dou Ting is good " the Su Mingcheng in, not be absolutely be fed up with, he also has lovely one side.

And dichotomy thinking, it is kind of extreme thinking, think blame is black namely white, blame be apt to namely evil.

Socially many person bosoms are putting such mind, think this individual or this thing, bad bad, good good, without the leeway of any changes.

Want to change such mind, above all, when encountering a thing or a person, this individual or thing, the acknowledge that has let you reached a dead end.

At that time, you should find the flaw of this thing and this person from much angle.

Tear apart gradually next, go to another when do not know exploring you, this meeting allows your thinking change.

Dichotomy thinking, mix to oneself actually human association is not quite good, so, once discover oneself have such idea, want to learn to change thinking.