Wang Hua teachs 3 fundamentals:
Domestic education does not have bagatelle, teach the sex when expensive shortly, the parent does right thing only.
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Serve as a teacher likewise, encountering various students is very normal, can Hold lives present child, this is very the thing of test teacher. Completely obedient, clever all the time student, it is to daydream just meet some things, the word that happens really can be nightmare instead.
Accordingly, encounter a flock of piquant children, to teacher and students, it is an opportunity. Piquant, do not delimit directly with dense bad and mistake equal-sign, it is we need to pay quite great ability to come really only with students " become one with " . I pass individual experience to answer a question here.
I in Shijiazhuang campus of one middle east undertakes school this course, the theme is " adolescent heart grows " , those who be aimed at is first one first 2, Gao Yigao the partial student of 2. The school is to pass a net to report a name to choose course, in more than 80 school the content that will decide oneself want to learn in this course, but, quota of people is finite, sign up to stop namely.
Because I am not this school on-the-job teacher, so I cannot see from tiring-room the student signs up for tax situation ahead of schedule, before begin school ability takes the student's list, the face has the student's full name, grade, class and sexual distinction here. I receive list in this semester when, see two characteristics, the student that is high school phase is held 90% , only student of grade of a few junior high school signs up for a class, the 2nd, have 5 woman students only, the others, it is a schoolboy entirely.
Ask everybody to envisage come off work in a few students, be boy of grade of high school just a little completely what concept be? Especially children grow now development is very good, build is major not low. I am taking such psychology to prepare to come to the classroom, but when I see children, still frightened jump: They how so tall?
The child that be present, the child of one is in a meter of 75 above, have 10 above among them, height is in a meter 85 taller even! I have a meter only five, from the imposing manner of height, although I stand on dais, tall without them still. And, I am a female teacher, when the child sees I appear, it is on the face conceal none despise.
When me self introduction is to tell adolescent heart to grow, when the course that is a psychology, children do not have raise one's hand, directly great stature schoolboy asked: "Teacher, is the student that will attend this class is psychology sick? " " are this and mental disease concerned? " some is directer, " teacher, what mental disease do we have? What mental disease do we have??
Ah, this is to should give me malformation, if I answer bad, children are OK hold handle, let me stage of refuse to come down, complain to school report even.
I am laughing to ask authority: " look everybody understands my course not quite, are then you how sign up? Are then you how sign up??
A flock of people are in children answer: " we are forced, be come over by school allocation. "It is in this mood how loath ah!
I ask: " are you to want what to class sign up for originally? " are you to want what to class sign up for originally??
Children say: " basketball, volleyball, football... " ah, be sports respect completely, hear this answer, I am clear why their average height is such!
I presented very surprizing expression to everybody: " wow, you are sports master sportsman! No wonder each blossoms such glamorous look of Gao Youshuai, like the hero in drama following Han! Like the hero in drama following Han!!
Fart of a rainbow, children laughed immediately, still just be full of smell of gunpowder curricular atmosphere comes down easily immediately.
"Each classmate, since everybody was allocated on my class, our lot decided, I am OK to everybody acceptance, everybody got on my class to won't regret certainly, you still can be mixed the classmate that did not attend my class says, you regret to go! You regret to go!!
Next, I with respect to reverse the position of the host and the guest, begin to reveal my individual glamour. I had my individual experience brief specification, I turned over all honor and the letter that obtain quickly, because these say to children, at best is for bluff person, and I hit those who move them truly is, in my job in me have present communication with the teacher of tens of thousands of, parent, children, the lecture is interactive, I am the domestic teaching staff that stands in foremost edge.
Next, I speak a heart gave children: " children like the parent to understand his, listen attentively to oneself, more those who expect is him self-identity, the expectation of the apiration that becomes us especially and parent has divergent time, we hope to get accredit and support, is not with me it is for you good and force you to be subject to, not be the revolt through describing the child more this is disobedient go against disobedient undertake morality kidnaps... children play a mobile phone, it is to disrelish little, because want to take a mobile phone only when the child,be, mom can feel you had played too much... "
My word, children closely solidarity is in my periphery, even if sound, my course resembles is to teaching children traitorous, how to defy the parent and teacher, how to challenge school regulations even, but actually, I am to stand on the child's angle to let everybody be experienced, if we can be done so, what will we face, we must want what to assume.
My esteem and care, my understanding and include, my guiding and in all affection, let the child like to attend my class more and more. Then, they themselves attend class not only, still " entice " the classmate is used can turn exclusively the opportunity of the class will attend my class. Leave occasionally finish class to still have 5 minutes, I ask everybody to make a speech freely, chat casually, what everybody says is, "You tell the teacher, what do you tell, we are willing to listen! " a teacher gets this, the biggest affirmation.
Now, the class of this one semester still has last. Attend a class when I show this case, children are very open-eyed, did not think of to be about so quickly to written guarantee class. Children ask immediately: "Teacher, finish a session, you still can attend class? We did not listen enough, we still want to continue your class! " I to children acceptance, "Finish one session, the student that is not graduation class welcomes to continue to sign up for a class, I can continue to be in, if be the student that enters graduation class, welcome everybody to look for you possible time sheet is made an appointment with! Welcome everybody to look for you possible time sheet is made an appointment with!!
In classroom one cheers and applause!
I believe, doing not have which child is for natively piquant and appear, they need a voice that hears their heart truly, need can say the teacher that goes into their heart. Know the child, communicate can effectively with children, pay attention to means method, can become a friend with children, can become the teacher that children are happy to accept.
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