Do not wish to get along with others, how should adjust psychology?

Above all, we should from go up at all search a reason to solve a problem. Do not wish to get along with others have two factors, 1, lack is self-confident, self-abased feel without safety. 2, cannot trust to anybody, breadth of mind is narrow. From proceed with of these two respects, search a method to solve a problem, begin from the first problem, devoid self-confidence can let a person appear decadent, indrawn, whole gives a person dispirited sense. We should face up to ourselves, come out oneself from the disengagement in all negative factor that depress him spirit level, want to a kind of life divides the state of mind that does not have an important matter dead, see trivial all issue and thing, do the truest oneself, do not care about the eye of any person, be born be extraordinary because of person day, be an upright person the sign that cannot have others, below the eye that cannot live in others, everything arranges its nature calm to face everything, oneself just are best, should have oneself individual character and view. The 2nd problem, much conversion thinks, trying to be shared with others, be in an unfavorable situation is blessing, overpay goes out, but cannot eat dark deficient, good person can have good cable, the friend also can rise more.