The thank invites, if this problem replies from angle of Zhouyi lot put in order can divide into the following reasons.
Because the official is killed,feeling of 1. female life is not arranged is more jumbly, or official of too heavy gram is fed to kill in character 8, another because itself gold Shui Taiwang or peach blossom too flourishing causes, and photograph of palace of husband and wife overcomes battle too advantages and disadvantages causes. For instance Gong Zheng of husband and wife closes, gong Xiangchong of husband and wife is worn, it is the star that feed an injury so special and adverse female life marriage, because former bureau is too heavier than disaster,male life feeling is not arranged is more Ke Caixing, or former bureau just is killed too heavy, ability star is jumbly cause, or castration of husband and wife is worn strong close too advantages and disadvantages day sits to be caused than disaster. So how is this kind of circumstance encountered to should do in reality?
The person that actually the emote in lot put in order does not arrange 2. , above all should him recognize, seek an account from oneself, for instance female life official is killed mix, the comparison that the person majority of peach blossom flourishing grows because of oneself is beautiful, animal sacrifice of easy incur different likes him, because this had better look for a honest man, once marry with respect to the cut the Gordian knot, the society rejects bad peach blossom, increase him affection business and reason, not Zhao Feng is brought butterfly, lest others is misunderstood and bring about feeling to be not arranged
If 3. is female the life feeds too heavy person majority is him exorbitant to requirement of other in part, pressure of together with life is too great, caused the obstacle is communicated between husband and wife, bring about feeling to be not arranged thereby, this kind of circumstance should learn to see the advantage of the other side, urge care opposite party more, learn state of mind of Chang Lezhi of content with one's lot, little cranky from avoid the other side to create pressure.
Male life feeling does not arrange 4. to be killed because of ability more too heavy or too heavier than disaster creating expressional in actual life is opposite sex predestined relationship too good, make oneself easily additional in misunderstanding oneself or oneself not to keep out reality partly content desire and passional temptation, solve method to use situation namely concentrated, many energy is put in him wife or you think to be able to accompany person of all one's life to go up, additionally him change explodes dry and actuation animal sacrifice case, learn to believe, show sympathy, patient, praise the other side, in after such is in, living more successful.
5. anyhow, learn to believe, show sympathy, patient, communicate, praise, change, improve standard of him animal sacrifice, not cranky, care the other side more, consider the benefit of the other side more, the society gets along, it is better and better to negotiate to be able to be in marriage. Additionally accumulate virtue of do good works also can bring a lot of profit to oneself!
