How is industry of look upon cement dated 38 years old by arrangement remnant daughter?

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Former incident is: "Nanning 38 years old of female white-collars are dated by arrangement cement industry, reject to be scolded by the mother disobedient "

Here involves 3 issues:

The first, a what kind of existence is cement industry after all?

The 2nd, do 38 years old of female white-collars and cement industry date what issue to show?

The 3rd, why does the mother force the daughter goes seeing a viewpoint of value affirms the person of different situation?

The author lives in north, what north is versed in to cement is cognitive, it is to say commonly " force is versed in " , basically be to building adornment industry to carry the cement, worker that carries sand. Additionally one kind of worker that matters with cement is " bricklaying " , basically be the job of and so on of wall of patch block, build by laying bricks or stones.

To this, the author investigated information first, discover the cement of Nanning area is versed in, indicating actually is northward " force is versed in " , basically work even if " carry, move, carry " , as to income respect, someone says cement is versed in a month also can earn on 10 thousand, this word truly.

Will look according to current general condition, 2, the power industry of 3 lines city, if a day of word of an unload (from cement of the discharge on the car) , average everyday discharge 1200 go to 1500 bags, every month earns 10 thousand can come true. Nevertheless everybody wants to notice, force is versed in even if physical strength lives, maintain high exhaustion for a long time impossibly, can give human life otherwise.

So, do not think some people can earn one day 559, he can earn 559 every day.

And, we are used to what weigh group of this kind of worker to be blue collar group, because,also be group the existence of these two words, in the income on the job, it is more capable for certain person, income is higher. After the author returns Yantai from Beijing, because course of study of this locality provide for the aged has not started, entered adornment industry. In adorning a profession, only a few carpentry of Yantai, the highest income that the author sees can reach only month 20 thousand, decorate minute of weak busy season nevertheless, this kind of outstanding worker is in Yantai one year income is maintained probably in 100 thousand the left and right sides.

Do not say the word outside the problem, sum up the cement industry of the following Nanning:

They are with physical strength the job is a foundation, need assumes bigger profession harm, but city of integrated income prep above is mean a kind of group of the level.

This problem creates contradiction very easily, if cement industry does not deserve to go up white-collar, that has the ill will of worker of look down upon; If say 38 years old to still be married,do not go out, that has a problem with respect to affirmation, this also is involved a few righter not marriage creed person discrimination.

But in fact, white-collar and cement are versed in these two professions, it is inapt for certain. Because one is mental worker, one is manual worker, the thinking that solving a problem to go up is different.

We cite a simple case, for instance the bulb in the home was burned, the white-collar can feel to burn was burned, will change again tomorrow not late also, why do sth over and over again time, besides goes out to buy bulb in the evening, touch probably on the shop closed, is circuit of do sth over and over again cannot be bought wasteful time?

And cement is versed in such manual worker can think, since was burned,go out to buy, cannot buy take a few places more. Pass than black move, still be inferior to going out to search look for bulb.

From here everybody can see, between mental worker and manual worker, the valuation to manual defray has apparent difference, this creates contradiction more easily. So, both be not suit on viewpoint of value.

Everybody may not pay close attention to a problem, that is a white-collar not be common white-collar, she is 38 years old of maiden still white-collars.

Also say with respect to number, this female white-collar, it is actually in marital market, belong to a kind of odd resource. This is not derogatory sense or contain the statement that sneer at, match a course in normal resource however in, good resource can come true match preferentially. The person that for instance Gao Yan is worth, marry successfully more easily in suitable phase; And the person of good-paying, even the person of man good-paying, can marry the woman with lesser age more effectively normally.

A lot of people feel: "The white-collar that calculates 38 years old is " remain " , also should seek a person that has same value idea. Also should seek a person that has same value idea..

If the author does not have understanding fault, the meaning of this word is to saying actually, still had better look for a brainworker, there is the estrangement on the thought between each other so.

This word is right, but want to look for a brainworker, in this age paragraph is a man, compare what did not marry really little, have two kinds of cases commonly: One kind is super diamond Wang Laowu, what nevertheless they match is low age paragraph belle resource; Another kind is to leave other, they are the people that had married, bring a child possibly even.

As to control to 40 years old, still maintain average income, and up to now single person. This kind of group is opposite for rarer be short of, because of the brainworker located environment is balance of male and female, if arrive 40 years old to had not finished first time marriage, the likelihood is to be on disposition, psychology or physiology the question with bigger presence.

Say so, this female white-collar of 38 years old, when matching a brainworker, more meeting encounters a 2 marriage and of age similar. But, when the person that match physical labor, may encounter an age lesser, but what had not married is individual.

Because, the female scale in blue collar group is original low, the person that adding physical labor belongs to the low layer group of blue collar group, want to seek son's wife in this group, not be too easy thing.

Accordingly, from the point of the current situation, although both viewpoint of value not be identical, but matching on the structure however.

However, even so, also cannot explain at this point, in case appear such marriage was combined, that can be a good thing. Still be that word, the marriage with abhorrent viewpoint of value, it is easy of occurrence acknowledge contradiction and deep-seated estrangement.

Of course, also want a process that explains this just dates, date moment can encounter a lot of objects, all sorts of mixed people. Although be suitable on the structure, but may not can marry.

This has pity on heart of the world parents namely, you feel this mother of 38 years old of female white-collars, is this dispute is not divided? Do not understand the difference of viewpoint of value really, may bring about marital misfortune good fortune?

Everybody should notice a bit, daughter already 38 years old, even if marry immediately, also want to be in 39 years old, 40 years old of unripe children. If must give birth to the child, the puerpera of this age is already breakneck.

And, the mother may be urgent is the thing later, how the daughter procrastinates to marry again, do not give birth to the child to moment not bad, the possibility that once give birth to the child,should face is life danger.

So, look in the mother, would rather let a daughter marry first, looked for a man to give birth to the child, which canal is a divorce after, always do not need to risking life danger to give birth to the child again.

Someone says, mother such practice is very selfish.

Right, but she is not for oneself selfishness, it is for the daughter essentially go selfish. We cannot approve of, but be not cannot understand.

Finally, hope this white-collar breakfast of 38 years old looks for bit of true love. In the meantime, also hope everybody gives an idea to this mother, having better solution probably.

For instance the author thinks: Since had pulled this age, still want to maintain viewpoint of value to had been compared consistently, marriage of look for a partner in marriage this thing also is not eager to temporarily, urgent trashy also, still can appear what is more,the rather that more busy in make mistake.