Why does Liu You mother coerce Liu You rested Tang Wan?

This problem, gentleman having a book answers back and forth:

Liu You, call " Song Daisi great poet ″ with Wang Anshi, Su Shi, Huang Tingjian, brilliant, write a poem 1000, it is to be called to put the poet with most poem, lifetime is patriotic, it is the patriotic poet with the greatest the Southern Song Dynasty.

But his lifetime, official career is not suitable, the road of love is lament making a person sighs more.

, parental pitch on Tang Wan of uncle home daughter does a daughter-in-law, be matched for marriage, go up in person add close, a hairpin of elegant and clinking phoenix of handed down from the older generations of the family regards Liu Jiayi as keepsake, issued this marriage with Tang Jiading.

Although be the life of comply with parents, the character of intermediary Shuo, but with a bamboo stick used as a toy horse of cousin green plum, be innocent playmates, liu You is very happy and happy married beloved Tang Wan.

Two people are good at poetic word, before the flowers and below the moon, recite poems oppose, from now on, began happy matrimony!

Resemble so perfect marriage, should be to live to old age in conjugal bliss originally, carry the end of life.

But the thing wishs not always like the person, be full of blemish happily from beginning to end!

Because of Liu You the mother sends whirlwind!

Land origin says to Liu You:" "Fast repair one paper to rest book, rest Tang Wan abandon, often use up " together to it personally otherwise.

Gentleman having a book is very curious, to Liu You's mother, oneself choose daughter-in-law, him since mother-in-law is aunt, why to meet so detest Tang Wan, send this kind to make unexpectedly the instruction of son get into trouble, did press Liu You rest Tang Wan?

Gentleman having a book is this, consult historical data, according to classical ceremony, baconian have the following reasons:

Original, at that time, "Be an official needs by a successful candidate in the highest imperial examinations, marriage surely with tall door ″ , land swims before marry, once two fail in a competitive examination.

And land home parents, think son age is not small, get married first, set his mind at naturally to read. Revitalize familial hope, fall in Liu You to go up personally.

Tang Wan, know a book to know truth as a child, appearance beauty is intelligent, it is the daughter of oneself elder brother, hnow through and through, should be optimal person selected.

But after Liu You marriage, full day and Tang Wan are in the room, recite poems a picture, cause land mother to Tang Wan, great and malcontent.

Tang Wan also is government-owned home a thousand pieces of gold, the mother-in-law is aunt, the likelihood also has bit of capricious, barratrous, neglect at ordinary times.

Actually, this ability is most, most, a the mainest reason.

Tang Wan get married 3 years, not was delivered of one male half female. Common saying says " is disobedient have 3, big " is after notting have, she made archaic " a blame of 7 ″ .

"7 ″ , point to without child, one also; Excessive comfort, 2 also; Not thing uncle aunt, 3 also; Talking around, 4 also; Steal, 5 also; Envy, 6 also; Foul disease, 7 also " .

Tang Wan made this, it is in light of the socialization viewpoint at that time, what her mother-in-law does is right, although her experience makes a person sympathize with, but whole society, however neither one person, call loss for her, also include her family among them.

And Liu You mother Tang, it is the granddaughter of Tang Jie of prime minister in feudal China of Northen Song Dynasty, highborn, very strong.

She needs oneself can squelch, the speech that won't grab a son with her again counterpoises, best can be in charge of passing a puppet daughter-in-law that receives era only.

This, hind in the word, cong Tangwan is rested, chose for Liu You again after land mother new wife king family name, gave birth to 3 children 4 years to see, land mother still is brought think be proud, think all the better of oneself are brilliant and decisive;

And at that time, for familial honor, descendants is prosperous, for oneself absolutely majesty, liu You mother decided " tired to Tang Wan at imperial examinations; Cannot pass a " that receive era two blames, give orders a Tang Wan is expulsive land home.

The love of Liu You and Tang Wan is very deep, do not wish to depart, his over and over again is entreated to the mother, sufferred a mother scold.

Below the suppress of feudal the Confucian or feudal ethical code, although a variety of begging piteously, although heart Bei is like,wring, male " of " Mom treasure, face the mother that forces with dead photograph, the feudal ceremony way that awe-stricken mother place represents, dare not revolt again.

Besides dark self-wounding Bei, also do not have really other more the method of appropriate, liu You and Tang Wan, return or went eventually " hold hand photograph sees tearful eyes " degree.

Liu You and Tang Wan, the true love love earnest of chilly beauty, because of the ″ of an affectionate couple of " v&n bastinado of Liu You mother, more music goes head of hairpin of " of the peak of poetic perfection of through the ages phoenix ″ , the love song of this lingering hidden bitterness, but those who hurt feeling is elegiac sang 900 years.

Of time machine time put, bearing gentleman having a book backdate that paragraph of pathos and Wei beautiful days.

Elapse month years old. The land after 10 years swims, go on a journey learns be an official outside, star-crossed, do not fail from beginning to end rise to power and position.

Come loose in in covering tightly, come to Shen Yuan, with Tang Wan not period and with.

A few cups of wine issue Liu You abdomen, myriad gloomy mood, emerge mind, look for writing, on Shenyang garden wall, in public epigraph " hairpin head phoenix " :

Red crisp hand, yellow Jun wine, willow of wall of palace of full city spring scenery. East wind is evil, joyous condition is poor. A cup of gloomy mood, leave all alone a few years. Wrong, wrong, be wrong!

Spring as usual, person sky is thin, xiao of shark of tear stains red is appeared. Peach blossom falls, idle pool cabinet. Although hill alliance is in, bright and beautiful book is held in the palm hard. Not, not, not!

The hidden bitterness in the heart what character says nowhere is pungent, because wine express goes out, tang Wan as Na Luliu euqally distant, although still be in when the oath first, cannot hand in again however now epistolary.

Always be in the feeling after insomnia, that is " lovesickness " ; Always be in the look after parting company, that is " be sentimentally attached to " ; Always be in parting the mood after, that is " lose " .

Spring scenery as before, beautiful woman sky is thin, so gaunt figure, see a few parting years, it is spend in painful torment. The word did not use up character tear, all bring a tear however; Did not use up talk feeling, situation is more difficult however, wrong, wrong, wrong, not, not, not, flower of have no alternative falls, is deplorable miserable mournful.

Tang Wan sees this poem, cancel a sad past event, remember the happy time that oneself and cousin are together; Remember oneself, ever was the woman that is abandoned, aching difficult curb, mix subsequently was opposite " hairpin head phoenix " :

1000 anxious once 10 thousand mood are ticked off to rise, also cannot put down again, affairs of human life is hot and cold, morning breeze blows the tear stains that worked yesterday night, fear the inquiry of others, oneself should keep back tear, ambitious still before others Yan Huan laughs.

One is abandoned, the woman that cannot bear, can be imagined, how old pressure should bear in usually, can to who is the anguish of alone heart recounted again? "Difficult, difficult, difficult " .

Liu You left, tang Wan although the surface is calm, inner with one climax following another, the hour of countless Ye Jinglan Shan, awake in the middle of the night, burst into tears, the life is how depression and hold back are bent, pretend to be firm, make mirth by force, hide the truth from only, hide the truth from, hide the truth from!

After Tang Wan writes down this word, angular with each passing day, heart gloomy becomes pain, before long die of jade of popular pass the time in a leisurely way.

After Liu You is old, see this word, weep bitterly, compunction unceasingly, like that affection oneself turn that one Jiangchun water, fu Yudong flows.

Some pasts, classics year also won't die; Some memory, also often won't efface eventually; Some cut, just hide in your heart silently, people cannot see however.

The love of Liu You and Tang Wan, it is a lay tragedy, liu You can helplessly look at, the woman that loves most, be far from alonely; The woman that loves most, doleful gone.

The love of Liu You and Tang Wan, what music goes is slender and delicate of a pathos is circled, the peak of poetic perfection of through the ages of ileum swinging gas.

Everlasting when having,

This affection is not had continuously absolutely period.

Above is gentleman having a book individual opinion, discuss for everybody!