Word coarse manages not relation of coarse brother of one's mother is too flimsy nephew difficult attend to
The country has a common saying " the dog that nephew is grandmother home, ate him to go " , this word is to be full of those who disdain interest undoubtedly, the in speaking native place country nephew of special figure and the awkwardness that Lao husband'ses father concern, letting a person sound is photographic, after all does this word have a reason? Its circulate be in northern region is particularly wide.
Generally speaking, every raised dog is loyal and devoted actually, eat absolutely impossibly to go, can why does the dog that nephew is grandmother door mouth unluckily eat to go? This word is contained more or less speak joking, it is to disdain interest even. In the past, general nephew belongs to person of not of the same surname, go to grandmother uncle home to often can enjoy good treatment to take care of in one's childhood, husband's father in Lao after all this respect looks, it is him home is married go out the daughter's children, the child that follows oneself is same, should recieve well rise, this is the sweet steamed bun of grandmother home undoubtedly.
Can grow as one individual age, nephew is brought up gradually, meet by more key link place of ordinary person human relations is manacled, slowly he can understand what he surnames, oneself are whose family after all, what should accede in the future is whose home burning incense, and a person is jumped over as the age big, he wants busy thing more, energy is not taken care of. Make an example, if you have time of slow-witted in the home a week only in a year, in which edge can you stay? It is with grandfather grandma, father in him home mom is together for certain, because such, the age is older, nephew takes care of the kin such as grandmother more without energy, because this can make person hard to avoid sad and disappointed, just say so, the dog that nephew is grandmother home ate him to go, means they won't be long-term go taking care of the kin there.
Of course, this is idea of tradition of a kind of old society, come as modern society, present child is less and less, and it is a singleton female, as a child when not be belt of grandmother Lao father looks even if grandfather grandma belt looks, everybody special to him be very fond of, this kind of idea is weaker and weaker already, already kissed scanty distinction without far and near in numerous will of people, can be opposite after hope child is grown the old person of both sides loses a responsibility to come, use up the obligation of good support old person.
