TV and mobile phone regard a family as necessary electronic product, had made the necessaries of life with indispensable modern, almost all children like to see TV play a mobile phone, pair of TV of a lot of children and mobile phone are very infatuate, if do not let look to be able to cry,be troubled by, my home toots toot also is, see I take skill machine to be able to be grabbed every time, from hold a class in the palm early to return want to watch TV in the home, a lot of children also are all round such, work in the same place and say, see hand and TV can make the child quiet to come down only, but everybody also knows, look TV meets pair of children to cause a lot of harm with machine playing a hand, if affect eyesight and attention, cause the demote below child acknowledge ability, and smaller child is more serious, but do not let see the child can cry be troubled by. How can let child give up drop mobile phone and TV, become the issue that a lot of parents headache.
It is excusable that actually children like to see TV and mobile phone, it is very difficult also that adult thinks Buddhist monastic discipline drops a mobile phone, because mobile phone and TV are too attractive, aglimmer picture, inviting music, the attention with absorbing huge, the cerebra that lets a person is in excitement in hard extricate oneself. Professor Wang Dawei of public security university says in TV programs, his child once liked to play game very much, he has said a lot of times, but the child still cannot change, he sees the child for know clearly why so infatuation game, tried of purpose, he says game is too absorbing, adult can be attracted, be the child what is more,the rather that.
My home toot toots two years old many, begin from a year old many, became TV and mobile phone to confuse, to do not let toot toot watchs mobile phone and TV, perhaps say measurable use these electronic products, I once thought a lot of way, had a lot of attempts, feel the effect is OK still, will be shared with everybody below.
The first, parents wants set an example, blame is necessary do not look before the child TV and use mobile phone.
The child is a piece of white paper actually, the drawing with what kind of scale of this piece of white paper, catch what color, in childhood phase of the child, decide by parents, if parents often looks TV to play a mobile phone, so the child falls in love with these is inevitable almost.
If parents often looks TV to play a mobile phone before the child, so do not let the child look, do not have any conviction, and still can attract the child to also look, one never accepts the child that has contacted TV and mobile phone, won't inherent the TV outside liking directly and mobile phone. If do not want to let the child look,so TV is mixed play a mobile phone, so adult does not look before the child TV and play a mobile phone.
The TV of my home does not leave basically at ordinary times, I and husband watch TV scarcely, but when former nurse looks after children, baby-sitter likes to watch TV very much, also let the child see cartoon occasionally. Before husband carelessly, the mobile phone can play before the child, I agree with him the mobile phone cannot play before the child, after next coming home, put the mobile phone in the child to visit the place that be less than, the child cannot see a mobile phone, also won't search actively.
Have clew of important a bit need, do not put TV in the bedroom, because a lot of children are 3 years old ago,be in a room with parents, the discharge in the bedroom is inspected, the addition that can can't help sees the time of TV, abroad considers to discover, the child of TV is placed in the bedroom, compare with other child photograph, chinese and mathematical achievement can differ 8 minutes on average, see here you can astonied?
The 2nd, with child agreement time, form a habit.
Modern society, make the child complete put an end to electronic product almost impossible, but the time that we can dominate the child to use electronic product, reduce an effect thereby, when the child asks to want to see TV play a mobile phone, I can tell him, we see one small meeting only, crossed one children to cannot look again, cannot exceed 20 minutes.
He understands this paragraph of word as a child, before wanting to see TV and mobile phone every time so, him metropolis says first " meeting, meeting " . Express to look a little while only, see say to stop after proper time, although he is loath, but also can accept. If cry,be troubled by should continue to look, determined put out TV or receive a mobile telephone, after forming a habit, my home toot toots most moment is met special cooperate, say to stop to be able to be accepted, face about goes playing other.
Our home regulation must put out TV before have a meal, when preparing to have a meal so, say " had a meal " , he himself says actively " did not look " .
Can let two years old the child says actively to put out the TV that likes to look, not be to accuse force oneself, be used to however.
3 years old of the following children, see TV mobile phone had better not exceed 15 minutes every time, my home is 20 minutes of less than occasionally. Have a newest research proof actually, use the child of the mobile phone as a child, the movement of hand ministry more agile.
The 3rd, also be the most important a bit, parents wants the company child of high quality.
If have more interesting thing, the child can forget TV and mobile phone, if parents accompanies the child to read, play game, the child's attention can not be of course on TV and mobile phone, if parents just thinks save trouble, do not want to make the child irritated oneself, give TV and mobile phone, flat the child these " electronic baby-sitter " , do not blame child addiction.
Accompany the child's time, can read draw this, play a toy or the game that the part acts, although just be hit with the child,fight noisely be troubled by, also be light of very happy close period of the day from 11 pm to 1 am.
Toot of my home toot likes to let me holding him in the arms to see draw very much this, he says actively via regular meeting " read aloud, leg (the news that he can deliver Ten) " . Express to want to sit on my leg, let me read to him, not be to read aloud completely actually, break up to look at the same time tell, yield his picture, because like to see the cartoon with piggy strange admire, so often the draw that from draw this house lends piggy admire to surprise this, have a few habits, if brush one's teeth, when he does not want to brush, say, admire surprises and George also brushs his teeth, he can cooperate.
Play because of the toy in the home irritated, one day he wants to watch TV in the evening, I receive the bean in the home in in the bucket, his in spirits played one in the evening, to before sleeping, still do not want to put down. Played gram two days, play soya bean again later. Even gladder than playing a toy. Children like to play sand and earth, do not have in the home, play these bean to also be mixed like playing sand, bury young toy go in to search again, I put earthnut ancient stemmed cup or bowl into gram inside, let him search, what play so is exceedingly glad.
We also can use the articles for daily use in the home, play game of a few original, what the child plays is glad, do not want to see TV and mobile phone naturally.
Parents is participated in, interact with the child, take the child's time full, let him be mixed in game in reading, have a good swim, reduce the interest of pair of electron products naturally.
