Although be Su Dajiang,taking on the hand 300 thousand, but premise is the house is done not have, and children also broke the likelihood economic support, such cost is a little big, if choose to follow Su Dajiang marriage below such circumstance, before oneself still may be inferior to the life of dry-nurse. Why so say? The reason has the following:
It is Su Dajiang 3 children are not to support what they marry twice. Without the support of children, meant them to do not have the economic support of children, common expense is derived from self-sufficient. And him Su Dajiang besides emeritus salary, do not have other income source, cannot ensure what live abundantly before two their people at all.
And for the angle from marriage, the support that does not have children and blessing them also is impossible happiness. To Su Dajiang's family and children, cai Genhua is inside this paragraph of time of dry-nurse of Home Su Dajiang, she is special understanding probably of the circumstance. It is the richest in children that she understands Su Mingyu, su Mingzhe also is returned in abroad pretty good, suming becomes disposition impulse, if oneself displeased them a few, oneself are without the ability that ward off blows, below the condition that rejecting so strongly especially.
If he takes care of Su Dajiang very well, oneself are not having the least bit contribution before his children. But in every case has a bit to take care of bad situation to fall, oneself can be blamed. Say Su Dajiang age is old again, the body also is not very good, oneself are taken care of well with bad it is to scoop up those who be less than the least bit advantage. Oneself are done not have necessary water of time of this time of muddy.
2 be look from feasibility condition, two people marry from long-term consideration be no good. Su Dajiang goes for for the first time when Caigen is spent, cai Genhua says what the daughter pays to her salary is Su Dajiang. Su Dajiang says he can pay Cai Genhua salary, but Cai Genhua says Su Dajiang nods emeritus salary then essential insufficient, she says herself the salary of every month increases living cost a month wants 6, 7000. Take the word that says so, a month is pressed 6000 calculate, it is a year seventy thousand and two. 300 thousand pay quite probably salary of 4 years, this is sit idle and eat.
Two people lease a building even, 300 thousand too little to two individual lives. And Su Dajiang's plan is such: Rent a two rooms one hall, take the money of 1/3 namely 100 thousand small sell store, earn a pin money. Su Dajiang still wants to decorated the room that leaves Cai Genhua to live directly, such current situation lets Cai Genhua fear. She feels Su Dajiang does not have a room to do not have money, undeserved oneself " adventure " .
3 it is Cai Genhua do not have feeling at all to Su Dajiang. The house that the premise that Su Dajiang promises before her is Su Dajiang still is in, still have children people support. She can cast off the current situation need not redo baby-sitter, can be perfectly justifiable follows Su Dajiang to enjoy young man and woman together people " give presents " , think oneself can follow Su Dajiang enjoy a happy life formerly that is to say, who knows is " want drink the northweat wind-have nothing to eat " . She is not willing of course.
Say she is to do not have emotive to Su Dajiang again, oneself are room of graph fund plan. Him age is smaller than Su Dajiang, in case Su Dajiang has a what at any rate, herself is done not have so that petty gain occupies. If oneself follow Su Dajiang marriage, want to take care of Su Dajiang not only, want day live well, she may be assumed even case " mouth of the paste that raise the home, subsidize family expenses " responsibility. Such life comes up from economy say the likelihood still is inferior to than baby-sitter.
Moreover she is know Su Dajiang " smelly disposition " , when just coming, she arrived with respect to experience, just serve as baby-sitter, for the job she is OK resign oneself to adversity, those who bear Su Dajiang is bilious, but if married, oneself cannot be borne. She needs husband to do advocate, her original idea is to consider the home when Home Su, make Home Su advocate, but everything changed, she is necessary without what bear all these. Whats don't have Su Dajiang. Her nature is the reason that is willing without. Stem from professional habit, stem from experience of life, be used to of her careful calculation and strict budgeting, to all these be to be able to calculate clearly of course.
A 4 words that are conjectural Cai Genhua, cai Genhua has sufferred affection to hurt likely. When Su Dajiang is taking baggage to look for him, she rejected one pile, having a word among them is she says she believes is feeling least of all. Before reason believes her, the likelihood gets business crossing affection, the likelihood has taken roundabout way on emotive road. So she does not believe feeling, she feels gold just has safe feeling more to her. So she rejected Su Dajiang.
The place on put together is narrated, cai Genhua is not willing to be married of course Su Dajiang.
