? This piece by Fu only appoint volunteer of expert of interlocution of specially invite psychology poplar Mr. replies, a date of psychotherapy Shi Yang, welcome to pay close attention to.
Apparently look the figure that Ga talks about is classics regular meeting it is a cogitative person. Because this chats at the beginning he can be cast give a verdict. This conclusion becomes a little with respect to what can let us no point, because had had a result, the process is like with respect to no point, people is gone after again appear a few more foolish.
A road has not begun to run, arrived terminal. Can be these people that often change the topic cool, be one ponders over very much person really? Not be actually. The person that I feel he is a pessimistic echo what other says only. Do not have oneself to the ply of life a few think, just can appear this kind has not begun what had ended to chat process.
Say how to avoid Ga to chat.
If want to avoid Ga to chat, I feel to want to learn echo what other says above all, also do not want echo what other says at the same time. How to hold? Chat, what everybody chats is a few common topics, that says a way, the point of view that can follow others is same, can follow the content close that others talks about. But the point of view that also does not want echo what other says, namely already the experience that somebody has summed up to you, throw at a draught, it is repeat only the viewpoint of a few others. So whole what chatting process can run is very dull. This my viewpoint looks very adj, so understanding rises may have difficulty, then we enter the next to compare simple method to have fun at namely.
Above all is what should I ask you have fun at to your life? Do you have fun at to the other side? Do you chat to this does content have fun at? If when have fun at, actually we need not say what word, want expression to come out only our interest, I am very curious, be willing to listen to you to tell, I want to listen to you to say, I what say feel very good, I feel very fancy, I feel very novel.
When having actually, do not talk to also compare a word the day died to be close friends a little a lot of.
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