Why can the person's cerebra consider a few issues that ought not to consider?

? An answer by Fu only appoint volunteer of expert of interlocution of specially invite psychology poplar Mr. replies, a date of psychotherapy Shi Yang, welcome to pay close attention to.

The person's cerebra is very strange, the thing that you think to ought not to think the more. You can think the more.

Have a classical story, an old man is in the technique that teachs villager touch a stone and turn it into gold, tell their everybody a pithy formula. The villager people think this a pithy formula is very simple, original touch a stone and turn it into gold is so easy. Later, the old man tells them point of a technology, when reading aloud this a pithy formula namely, scarcely should want to be fond of Ma to pull the monkey of elegant hill, scarcely should want to be fond of Ma to pull the monkey of elegant hill! The villager people feel very good to laugh, who can think the horse pulls the monkey of hill on the west? But everybody is met when reading aloud abracadabra,think of the monkey of the the Himalayas not self-consciously. Neither one person is so OK touch a stone and turn it into gold.

If you are met the abracadabra of art of touch a stone and turn it into gold, can you think of the monkey of the the Himalayas when reading aloud abracadabra every time? I think you are met!

When because you do not allow yourself to go in every time,thinking, the content that is not willing you to recollect and remember was recollected entirely, aggrandizement. Activationed that area of cerebrum afresh! Do not have method so, you tell yourself not to think every time! Do not think! Do not think! When, it is to doing aggrandizement to work. This is not the method of subsidise.

What thing is the thing that ought not to think? Some moment are we are wrong, some moment are related to the gender, we can think that ought not to think, or we once lover, or once a certain distress, we are willing to let it break up more piece and in the past.

We force ourselves not to think, actually each force him not to think is deep at the back of the move do not admit, because do not admit us to be able to appear now and then, do magnify indefinitely and frighten, and this kind of infinite ground magnifies and frighten, can let the our aggrandizement memory to this thing, it is incident not only, still joined more sentiments. We are in do not allow everywhere in the center the matter that reviewing us to not be willing to want ceaselessly.

Of course our cerebra still has a characteristic, he is not to get our pilot completely, control can not get when he has, so after-thought arrives a few I am not willing to want, there also perhaps is not the thing that think of before. The backside of the problem that you are not willing each times to want, hiding your deep uneasiness, fear and do not admit.

Rather such you are inferior to trying admit oneself, admit oneself bad place, perhaps that memory lets me very extremely, perhaps this kind of idea lets me feel he is very bad, but do not have method, I am a person! The immortal still has incontrollable oneself when, what is more,the rather that I am an individual only! Allow oneself to have these idea so, but the thing that does not go doing harm others, if affect oneself life deeply really, proposal major appeals.

Unless you want to do an immortal!

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