Rate of divorce of wet Shan person is low it is the fact that does not dispute, it is to be in Guangdong not only provincial, put the whole nation, even whole world, should not find the 2nd divorce to lead lower place. The historical development of this and wet Shan area has very big concern.
Wet Shan area, also call current state the area, what point to from administration is head of Shan of current state Jie Yang 3 city. But our place more it is the place that points to Shan speaking tide, so one part area also calls Shan end wet Shan external. This is not a key.
Little person of wet Shan ground is much, according to Shan Wanghai, be in farming agrarian times, our ancestors is much with ' ' denounce the sea ' ' , ' ' over- time ' , ' ' next southern Asia ' ' lay a shift to seek, ancestors people the life, follow migrant same, when domestic responsibility should partaking after the man in the home is grown, a lot of metropolis choices follow uncle generation people go to sea together fend. The task nature that old person child takes care of in the home falls to the body of the wife.
If put today society, ground of different of husband and wife and house, be afraid the family wants dissension, because we often are told now,want equality of men and women, want economic independence. The woman left a man, the man left a wife, the world turns all the same. But be in inchoate, it is wet Shan not only, the position of complete China woman is very those who depend on, marry the daughter that go out to sprinkle the water that go out, of the female live to want to depend on more the male, be in especially farming the wet Shan area that agrarian land natural resources breaks through lack, the woman is married the destiny after going out is to master in husband hand. Somebody can want to say old man principle, still not be really, going to sea is an action that should risk fresh gale danger, the men of wet Shan ancestors dare be made dare enter dare take on, ten years old have to instigate a bread, so the family gets division of labor to make clear, feminine Gu Jiali, the man enters the world.
The wet Shan person that go to sea has very thick agrestic complex, often unite in strange dispute, because left home town to forget wife child,do not meet, also dare not forget, exotic an alien land already was alien only oneself after all, can elbow out, so people never can forget just is over there home town from already. In the time that does not have a phone, epistolary it is exclusive the means with the connection in the home, the current people that denounces the sea is met the money along with of a gain is epistolary return the home along with all the others in, stick outside the envelope red, mention expressly directly amount. And all daily expenses in the Qian Cao housekeeping that the wife in the home relies on this to be sent, show so outside often run one's home of meeting of woman of boast wet Shan, have historical source.
Be based on such lifestyle, wet Shan person is right ' ' ' ' this concept becomes unusual cherish, all behavior that destroy domestic division can suffer consistent criticism and boycott, accordingly, be in wet Shan area, brother fights, fall out of father and son, still be brawl of husband and wife, won't choose to cut off until the last moment relation, and make a noise again fierce, face ' ' foreign enemy ' ' when, we also can accomplish be of one mind, solidarity ' ' fight enemy ' ' .
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