What does person keen on face-saving have to use?

Fu only appoint Li Yanqiong of volunteer of expert of interlocution of specially invite psychology:

Appearance " face " sentence: Shabby-genteel have a hell of life, tree wants leather person to want a face. But want " hypocritical face " treat respectively with the person's dignity.

What does face represent?

Speak of outer part the viewpoint of my individual thinks, it is the Incantation of the Golden hoop that oneself get on to oneself. The person that be concerned about face-saving shows commonly those who come is: To the subtle minor details in reality, special care about. Care about others to be evaluated to his, explicit element can influence his certain decision and view. Maintain easily when anything crops up " a muscle " thinking means, ning She is not curved, the face of this kind of the Incantation of the Golden hoop, giving what oneself bring is " terrified " , not be happy.

Slap one's face until it's swollen in an effort to look imposing, be hit swollen face was to increase " of face " area, paid anguish to must come only regrettablly. Such person theres is no lack of in the life, constant " occupied you talk " hang on the mouth. Actually, some things TA still does not do really, listen to a friend to had been told, his upstairs neighbour king eldest brother, meet the person is mixed neighbour people say, understanding is not little net of person, human relations in society is much. Result ah oneself daughter, graduate to get married from the technical secondary school, be out of job in the home several years. Neighbour people ask Wang Da elder brother, why the child doesn't work? King eldest brother replies: "The child plans the unit that go to work, decorating " ... the king eldest brother of such slap one's face until it's swollen in an effort to look imposing, it is beside us, really " shabby-genteel have a hell of life " .

My individual thinks face project is the extremely small part that attributes dignity, care about moderately, OK and vigilant oneself do not want " capricious " . The ability of everybody is finite, ability inadequacy strengthens study more. Do not want a mistake to understand face engineering, it is the person's dignity, of the struggling spirit that dignity is a kind of exalted character, free-standing self-improvement reflect, it is consistent reflect.

Do not let so called " face project " take oneself into a kind of words and deeds abhorrent " fenny region " . The action that says person keen on face-saving so tells him to want to accomplish namely: Consistent.