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The cause with marital the most essential failure, be in I think is degree of belief to be short of break. Begin to suspect the other side, jealousy is ceaseless, let each other misunderstanding deepen, and strong does not let him explain, go pour oil on the waters.
In the life, plain sailing love can have certainly. But more it is to be in the life, pass understanding, communicate, adjust, search what suit each other comfortably to a kind to get along stage by stage mode. Such, can the problem that will appear well, contradiction is solved very quickly, digest. But if those is short of here,lost faith, although the person of again deep love also is met,suspicious ceaseless, serve guillotine finally love.
Reason this, on utterance suspiciousing is the beginning that the problem cannot alleviate. A word of the other side, oneself begin to consider, question mark can be made in brain, think the other side is concealed somewhat to you, although this kind of jumping-off place that conceal is good, but if do not explain, resultful is goodish, unexpected how terrible, the illusion that gives oneself then is, distrust of the other side, ignored, look down on your ability.
Next, to the suspicion of its behavior, make contradiction progressively upgrade, or it is cold war after all, or it is fight hand-in-hand, tear at is ceaseless. Want to know, behavior is a thought is specific reflect, if behavior is oppugned by the other side, although you have a variety of explanations,often explain for oneself then, absolve, that the other side also will surely not listen to go in. Then can feel you are too much to his try to cover up, him by be kept inside a drum-be kept in the dark, got cheat. Reason this, begin each other to bore, feel the other side is truthless, fluky.
Thirdly, to its character produces suspicion to make marriage thoroughly undone. At that time, each other are almost incompatible. Any your good intention, turned asinine liver into lung. He begins to generate suspicion to everything, let the affection between each other do not have whirly leeway again. And deny not only the other side, still can deny oneself, think him undeserved kindness person, go wrong road, be determined to correct so. Reason this, of the other side a variety of, oneself cannot be accepted again, must part thoroughly.
Actually, in love, accredit is the base with solid marriage and premise. Without giving thought to for love or money, the other side should give explanatory chance between husband and wife, have to divide green red black and write, v&n bastinado foot is kicked, let heart of the other side have ill feeling, bring about contradictory aggravation finally, marital disintegrate is not reversible.
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? Song Gong, be graduated from Chinese agriculture college, in Fu only appoint editor and propagandist work station are volunteer the service is old. At the service during, accepted professional psychology to groom of division primary groom, the system learned psychological relevant ABC, and carry out goes at all sorts of practice activities. Be judged to be association year for many times outstanding volunteer. The hope passes his effort, can help more people.
