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See this problem, guess reach problem advocate hesitating oneself marriage loves a problem. What do not know oneself like is which kind of, and which kind of again oneself suit.
Two people that having different life contrail want how to be done after all, does ability become the person that fits most on this world? Should consider the following factor:
One, " get along well " .
3 words that look simple, however test is two the individual's horizon, cognitive the common language that the element place such as interest and thinking means makes, from " hello " those who begin is rambling do not have foreword collective topic is searched in chatting, this is the foundation that continues to interact.
2, lifestyle is shirt-sleeve.
Like ultimate motion and the person that like tea art, a love is moved, very static, former have open the mind that reachs adventure, latter and opposite discretion and conservative, so, understanding hobby understands nature secondhand namely, such ability find more common languages.
3, consumptive outlook is consistent.
Nowadays is very old light lover produces difference on cost, vexed for the thing of a few trifles. The love when even if be passionately in love surmounts everything, agree to be without the change of complaint for the other side, tend when feeling insipid when, abhorrent consumptive idea will make the fuse that each other quarrel eventually.
4, the blemish that accepts the other side.
The person does not have perfect man, two people are together, time grew to discover each other defect. Not exacting and perfect, defect, everybody has, accepted just suit.
May, this one ability is the most important.
5, sweet feeling.
Do not see can miss, saw do not want to part again. When wanting two people to be together only, the feeling is the most relaxed, the best time, that is happiness, happy.
Appropriate love, encounter right person in the time with proper right place namely, want two affection to heart of Xiang Yue, heart is interlinked even if suit most only.
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? Di Ying, academician of Chinese mental hygiene, 2 class psychology refers the country master, shandong province the Women's Federation and group of labour union instructor are senior instructor, dean of hospital of plastics of Jinan channel hairdressing, atelier of psychology of heart predestined relationship is presiding psychology seeks advice from division.