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Occasionally, goodness can change a society. Had seen a lot of real stories, a certain person has been in the brim of dead end, was about to commit a crime, because of other a kind-hearted act, changed a way thereby, changed his life contrail, also changed a society.
Occasionally, goodness changes a society, became the result that we are not willing to see however. In clear minor details, the ground experiences the Chinese nation all sorts of inbreaking, however, compatriots resists feebly however, come because of thousands of years even " good intentions, formal state " teach and abandon resistance, be worldly wise and make oneself safe, bring about land to be divided up, home is uttered misery.
The Chinese does not lack kind-hearted essence, great a long time is awaited, because of the influence of culture, to alien, should compare even not bad to people on one's own side. So, to already root establish is in the goodness in him blood, what is there does necessary whereaboutldirection others prove again and again? Not was necessary at all.
Those who be necessary is, when do we present our goodness, use our goodness to He Ren.
Not all person is worth our goodness. Kind-hearted, add a club to drink, just be perfect combination. Resemble the civilization of our country, want complementary with army and judicial jail same.
Those can respect us, those is the same as our euqally kind-hearted person, be worth our goodness. Those encroach us frequently, offend our attrib border person, to their goodness, it is the harm to ourselves. If you are opposite from have not,these people say " not OK " , where can other know your bounds is in? That can make clear only, it is your underlying weakness gave them the chance.
To you, special those who be necessary is, why is understanding clear that he is encroached again and again attrib border? The likelihood is the goodness that you think to use your really saves others. See a word by chance this morning, "If I become Buddha, the world does not have demon; If I become monster, buddha Nai my why " . If you had the capacity that saves degree of the world really, there is not good at person in your eye; Be like other already be infatuated path, you even if Buddha, also have no alternative. So, why should let oneself be in predicament continuously in? This matter has nothing to do other, concern you oneself only.
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