This classmate, the mentation that hopes my today's answer can let you adjusts somewhat, also hope to you, help somewhat.
What introducing above all is self-abased psychology, self-abased psychology is right oneself lack a kind of proper understanding, the weakness that always is willing to take oneself goes be being compared with the good qualities of others, do its be overcautious, dare not express oneself true opinion. Everybody produces self-abased account likelihood need not. What say like you is domestic condition likely bad, or oneself appearance is not distinctive, perhaps lack confidence to wait.
Actually, of the world big, always meet those who have more outstanding than oneself person to appear, but on the contrary the person does not have perfect man, everybody has his defect and advantage. Be in when you when looking up at others, perhaps you are becoming the target that others looks up at. From inside your speech, because the home is in small town,you are, domestic condition and the be not a patch on such as experience the classmate of other and self-abased, those who cause you to produce self-abased psychology is your wrong acknowledge.
The value of a person, dignity, ability can be not measured with money, you can take an examination of a good university, and be take an examination of from a small town come up, you should not feel for your birth self-abased, instead the something that you experience, it is other is not experienced, and cannot be experienced.
Adjust a few methods of self-abased psychology
One, the acknowledge with him wrong change
The personage of most success is as a child family circumstances is not rich, can succeed, obtain what pass oneself hard completely, do not think to be born in small town so low others is first-class, this is very wrong think of a way, although be born,cannot choose, but oneself destiny is to be able to master in his hand, want your enough effort only, you can have more bright future.
2, everyday ego is encouraged, autosuggestion
Because just went to an university, everything the classmate's brings you very big impact all round the likelihood, need time goes adjusting oneself state of mind, can undertake to oneself ego is encouraged everyday, autosuggestion, telling his everyday is possible, it is very marvellous, psychologist has said the suggestion may change one the individual's state of mind, be cannot of small gaze.
3, achieve small goal, let oneself have achievement to feel, increase oneself self-confidence.
You can see in the sentence that carries you or lack self-confident heart, the addition that achievement feels can increase his self-confident heart, this achievement feeling is not to go after greater success, give everyday however self-ordained a little cause, of effort finish it, your knowledge may be inferior to other person now, you can let yourself read a few extracurricular books everyday, increase oneself experience. Go down for a long time, self-confident heart can increase, can eliminate self-abased mentality naturally.