When despair, be what is propping up you to step down?

Fu only appoint Li Minmin of volunteer of expert of interlocution of specially invite psychology:

About this problem, I made investigation of a few questionnaire. Occupy much among them proportional, it is a few more important option that everybody approbates, my idea also is such.

Inside my sampling investigation, the scale of family is occupied 50% , include sister of parental child brother to wait. In a few very acedia hour, considering family is the power that the move that prop up takes forth really, mix on this world your closest family member, they can give you all the greatest power and all courage.

The scale of responsibility occupies 20% , asked a few and the candlestick makers, their responsibility to the job, to domestic responsibility, let them be met when feeling acedia to social responsibility of without thinking honor permits no turning back step down, when facing setback and difficulty, the person often has laziness, can select the issue with be mixed relatively easily easy, responsibility meets those who make you precipitant hold to.

The scale of this part occupies 10% , include religious belief, culture belief, include a kind of feelings to certain thing even, principle of a few importunate. In actual society, a lot of things our have no alternative, can have the hour of a few despair, include the sort of family member beside and friend to also cannot feel quite the acedia hour that is the same as experience, with respect to need right now one kind exceeds capacity, numinous energy goes propping up, guiding go forth.

In investigating a process, this option is little part existence, also cannot ignore. We are unripe and alone, be in especially when feeling acedia, can feel the whole world remains him only a person, have a kind of forsaken feeling more, if we give birth to the serious other people that hit the target to be able to give in time,help, can let us be in when feeling acedia, step down energizedly.

One the individual's interest is liked, it is him (she) came off after social part and domestic role, like the thing that do as oneself, it is one of features that become oneself, with interest the hobby stays together, feel very loosen very safe, at the same time the attribute because of it can bring us more energy and inspiration again, break through dense fog to us, walk out of despair to have very good help.

[an answer by division of ZhongGuanCun hospital psychotherapy Doctor Zhang Haijing is given professional guard a pass. ]