Do not invite self-invited.
I feel rural ruffian is much, because,be not just poor. Our village and on the side village distance is less than 200 meters merely, a village is on slope, our village is below slope, population dimensions is about the same big. Our village is poor village all the time, but our village 80 hind married basically, only remnant 9 ruffian, adjoining village is famous craftsman village, have money quite all the time, but 80 hind ten did not marry. Our village environment is poor, without traditional craft, early went out to work 80 hind the character of Shuo of intermediary of main in part, half freedom love, what that moment goes out femaly to work is little, go out to work male often other village the girl of other perhaps town brought back. The craftsman of adjoining village works in the home, rely on go-between act as a matchmaker completely, although rich but still ruffian a lot of, female after all original little, do not accept act as a matchmaker plus the part, their chance is a lot of less.
To now, our village ruffian is led or under the village adjoining, although still poor, but be willing to part with or use spends money, our village is these around bourg the earliest also be most person buys a house in the county, when the county has a house, ask to betrothal gifts in woman home not quite tall, look for a partner in marriage is relatively easy also.
Say situation of village ruffian family besides, poor, rich, family financial situation is general, basic measure is similar, but have general character: Or child is not good at intercourse, young when saw female dare not talk, or is being bestowed favor on too in the home, dare not let him himself go out to enter. We say money of female now too real love, actually otherwise, choose a target femaly for the most part, money is not the first, person cross-eye is the first, money, yan Zhi these are to add cent.
Rural ruffian is much, because,be not just poor, bigger reason is ready poverty, very much even I am poor my reasonable idea.