When we give birth to the child, husband's father and mother did not give a minute of money, also did not buy pron any thing to the child, the child the dress that elder sister of brother of her aunt home crosses takes me, those children ten years old, I also did not want the clothing that put ten years, said before the mother-in-law's face, child dress is bought enough, these dresses are not used!
My daughter now on the horse 5 years old, the grandma gives bought a skirt, money given to children as a lunar New Year gift is sent when spending the New Year only, whats had not bought the rest!
Do oneself give birth to child mother-in-law to should give money after all? Actually the mother-in-law meets major family farther-in-law to give money symbolisticly. For instance the friend beside gave birth to child old person to give in those days 10 thousand, still have a fellow worker gave in unripe child home 3000, money much Qian Shaodou is the intention of the old person.
But also can encounter like us this is planted old person, a minute of money does not go, the dress had not been bought almost, want to get angry for such thing really? I feel to not was necessary!
Above all, unripe child is to be his to be born, have nothing to do with with the old person, they are willing to give money, we do son's wife also meet glad, it is likewise in the life we also are met much filialer, will be thankful old person.
But, some old people do not give money namely, also need not get angry actually. For instance my husband's father and mother, although be done not have,spend money at ordinary times, but they live far, our economy is nervous, also give them money rarely. As long as themselves is healthy, oneself can have patronized him body, need not we are abstracted, it is to children most gave big help.
If old person body is bad, it is he does not buy fund to you, what this children takes care of is same do not run.
Additional, the person became old fall ill easily, a lot of people became old what see fund easily is heavier, without the saving, let an old person lack safe sense, what so a lot of old people see fund is heavier, this also is the state of mind with normal old person.
Say so, do not have too much demand to the old person, they are willing to help, our jump at, they are not willing, we are diffident, even psychology prays they are healthy. After all the old person is taken care of without obligation grandson generation, but children is accountability patronize an old person!
