Gentleman having a book feels to should correct problem advocate view, be not is only just sexagenarian old person seeks an old partner hard, the old person that points to sexagenarian left and right sides however seeks an old partner harder.
"Hold your hand, grow old with you " . It is every good to life of husband and wife will.
However, "The person has vicissitudes of life, the month has Yin Qing circle to be short of, this matter is ancient difficult complete. " big perhaps half a lifetime also did not find some old people likely mate, halfway of some husband and wife abandon other in part, oneself set foot on the one's way home that goes on the west first.
"Search look for to look for, cold and cheerless, deplorable Qi Qi " perhaps be " those have no kin and cannot support themselves " the true portraiture that the affection of these 4 kinds of people lives, but, why does the old person of sexagenarian left and right sides find an old partner very hard?
Gentleman having a book becomes aware basically have probably is the following the reason of these a few respects.
It is the reason of social side above all.
One, lay idea is put in bias to old people marriage.It is alone no matter eventually old single men and women, still be the old people that midway berefts of his spouse, people can contain the insight of a kind of discrimination, not be to feel old heart of old person person is spent, integrity in one's old age is not protected, feel namely old person make trouble out of nothing, satiate maintain so that love blind do sth over and over again. In this kind lay bias dominant falls, the strides pursuit love step with very rare can bold old person.
When old Zhang Tou is 63 the farther-in-law of colleague plum elder sister years old, the old partner died. But the body of old Zhang Tou is returned be good at bright move, every morning walk with vigorous strides walks along 5 kilometers to be not taken those who pant. After the old partner dies, old Zhang Tou finds an appropriate old lady, want together to live, but Zun Lin is right,abandoning is not to criticize him to I am sorry face to face gone ex-wife, gesticulate privately namely, scold old man old lady shameless, so come, the old lady also is not willing to be mixed again piece of old man lived together, hold out a pair of good the fate brings lovers together originally, was broken so.
2, the gregarious platform that the society lacks corresponding normal directive old person to make friend.Social classics regular meeting pays close attention to the feeling of men and women of mature young person to live, the orgnaization can wait to often organize activity of friendship of couplet of young men and women through the Women's Federation, unit in holiday. Very few however helpful old people undertakes handing in friendly orgnaization, more god-given see have corresponding activity, those are alone eventually old or the senile men and women that midway berefts of those spouse passes a society very hard to organize the other in part that finds the life normally.
Besides, the social side itself of the old person is narrower, some old people in the belief that the information on small perhaps advertisement goes to a few go-between date, perhaps marry, the result often is duped, be cheated to get person money two sky. Such with respect to aggravate the appearance that old age seeks an old partner hard is formed.
Next, it is the reason of domestic respect. This basically is the old person that shows midway berefts of this spouse. The children of the old person seeks old partner, digamous action to the old person exceeding do not agree with.
The parents of filial for fear that of some old people remarries what can affect old person belongings is successive. The mother after some rejects to admit or hind the domestic position of father, some thinks Leng Buding comes out more a stepmother or hind pa special at odds. They look for the old partner's behavior to pay no attention to solution again to the old person, do not respect break forcibly even digamous senile friend.
Wu Shu is more than 50 years old, wife died due to illness. Because wife is alive when, wife does life daily life of Wu Shu. After wife dies, wu Shu won't cook already, also won't wash clothes, it is farfetched more in the home. Live together with the son, he feels no-go, not willing also.
Produced the idea that seeks an old partner then.
But, follow the news that oneself find an old partner when him son daughter-in-law says, son daughter-in-law is 100 not willing.
Are they to say: ? of coat salty becomes warped gather up? of prize of fade of calligraphy or painting model " if there is build to be fond of a head after the old lady,heat up, we can not be willing lackey. " still give off a word to come even: ? Hold Tu Xianfei high farsighted cheek knocks moisture in the soil of of grey Tang to pull virtuous fraud of ⑵ of the Kong Yin that return Mu emerges arrogate to oneself shine Qian of Mu of salty ! Appearance of Lu Huan of dainty of of Yu of а of flood dragon of barge of of benzene Mao melt four crisp ?
The 3rd, the apiration that senile men and women remarries is lower.The apiration that male old person and female old person remarry is not quits also. Some old people are single all one's life, also was used to, alarming really washed-up, go to beadhouse. Friends of some woman old age feel lackey oneself old man all one's life, does why bother look for an old man to come again irritated? Moreover, the sexual demand of senile men and women is very low also, so, do not be willing to seek an old partner again.
"Husband and wife of have a youthful look, often will accompany " . Old age loses the spouse's life, also be very provoking to old people actually. They also hope to other in part can be taken care of each other, pull help the daily life of a family, the loneliness that divert oneself from loneliness or boredom lives and loneliness.
Our society should have taller admit degree, should search other in part to create a few due conditions for old people more, children also should set out from parental angle, give senile parents more understanding and respect, him old people also wants the idea with lay slam the door, pursue oneself happiness bravely.
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