Say on firm sense, self-abased attribute flaw of a kind of psychology, or psychological disease. Hearing of is a disease, should collapse with the day come down like. Actually, our everybody has certain self-abased mentality. For instance, see a leader, a lot of people are met hurry-scurry; See wealthy person, many people are met have a sense of inferiority; See oneself are dark the person that love, meeting heartbeat quickens major person. This is a kind of self-abased expression.
When I am small, also once self-abased over- . I am in a country in those days, the light that sees each wears the child in the city is bright beautiful, and what oneself wear is small-town, have a kind of self-abased mentality in spite of oneself. As the growth of the age, add on a few psychology to adjust, intelligence becomes more and more mature. Work in the city later, slowly be in harmony took city life, self-abased also into thin air. Overcome self-abased, I am so those who do:
One, give oneself suggestion of a few psychology more. Self-abased, it is psychological cause trouble actually, subconscious in think oneself are inferior to others. Should overcome self-abased, be about to often give oneself suggestion of a few psychology, for instance: I am not as our bank, poor as others, I also am very marvellous.
2, the society discovers his virtue. Everybody has his advantage, self-abased person often sees his weakness only and see the advantage that is less than oneself. The weakness that always uses oneself follows the advantage of others to compare, arose then self-abased. So, want to learn to discover oneself virtue, for instance, although I am poor, but I am kind-hearted, although he is rich, but his be rich but cruel.
2, do not care about the view of others. Self-abased person eye always is staring at others, very care about others the view to oneself and evaluation. People says he is stupid, oneself see oneself as expected very stupid really. Actually, you are original not stupid, the mouth that is others affects your thinking. Want to learn to ignore the view of other directly, I am stupid close you why thing!
3, interact with others more. Maintain a distance with others, can let you only more and more close and self-abased. Want to be walked out of bravely, interact with friends more. Do not rise oneself heart wrap up, and often should take bask in, in that way, sunshine can is full of in your heart, self-confident also subsequently and came.
5, encounter oneself not to understand, keep calm. Still one is plant self-abased be, to strange thing, often meet flustered, be afraid of him timidly and provoking jest. Had not eaten Western-style food for instance, a lot of people can have self-abased mentality. Do not want at this moment confused hands or feet, and should keep calm, can observe other visitor have dinner, direct perhaps from ridicule, can eliminate very quickly self-abased.
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