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Fear to always can have a reason. And reason end rises outside notting have inside and outside because. And external cause, come from the other side to give a variety of his oppressive sense, scared feeling, can let him be nervous more, meaning of heart for fear that.
You are afraid of the other side, outside notting have have a few kinds of cases.
Above all, opposite party is strong always, august, gas field is powerful. Be crossed by flintily lesson, its sanction means makes a person bravery battle be bitterly disappointed. Like nightmare. Want to be afraid of. So, see this individual, the heart is scared.
Secondly, the other side is grumpy, have violent tendency, let your the skin is torn and the flash gap open easily. So, see with respect to oneself the flesh is painful, want to hide, want to shine.
Thirdly, can undertake economic punish to you. And was used to in economically free follow a gender you, be restricted to manacle by money, the feeling is extremely painful, so the heart is fear of.
And when the person that faces these to let you be fear of when you, the heart will be not self-conscious the ground is recreant, cowardly, the heart has cowardly idea. What your regular meeting experiences him is insignificant, helpless, helpless, oneself cannot cast off the other side to be exhibited to oneself accuse. So, when the person that fears when you stands before you,
Above all, you should maintain certain safe distance. The manner is gentle, do not evoke the outrageous point of the other side.
Next, give oneself psychological suggestion, tell oneself, I am not small sheep, I am northeast tiger.
Thirdly, the other side says what need not argue, listen well, do not express any views, opinion.
Its 4, make oneself mature as soon as possible, independent. Want to find oneself existent way, is not blindly rely on the other side. Give you the strong point of the life.
Its 5, have sufficient capacity when you, physical strength when, OK and orthoptic the other side, come an obverse side is right definitely. With your eyes, expression, verbal, limbs movement makes what the other side experiences your heart powerful.
Actually, fear a person, still basically result from the other side is right the powerful wallop of own heart, and oneself bear without ability again, so, be fear of in the heart, let him in fear and trembling, lose one's balance. If want to be being changed substantially, exercise oneself with respect to need, make oneself much experience, much experience, make him intelligence mature, then has all sorts of generation that answer ability. Such, face the person that be afraid of, you can become very relaxed, very self-confident.
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? Song Gong, be graduated from Chinese agriculture college, in Fu only appoint editor and propagandist work station are volunteer the service is old. At the service during, accepted professional psychology to groom of division primary groom, the system learned psychological relevant ABC, and carry out goes at all sorts of practice activities. Be judged to be association year for many times outstanding volunteer. The hope passes his effort, can help more people.
