Acknowledgment invites! Old alarm think, present child does not have good canal, have difficult canal and very difficult canal only.
Those who be in charge of the child is the most crucial one pace, namely from the child can " understand person word " begin, the language that is about to use the child to be able to be understood is taught. Must not use " the child is too small " search to oneself " doting " excuse, real big love is rear the child into can firm, independent think, the person that has the definite idea, habits and customs that has had. And all these is about to begin as a child.
Old alarm have a daughter of 8 years old, when she is 2 years old in supermarket settle on a toy wants to buy, and be lain on the ground by my refus never to be seen again roll about, after I warn her, face about goes... from now on, she also does not have this kind of practice again, include not to drink beverage, not snack, it is such.
Actually, lie when her underground rolls about my face about resolutely when definitely leaves, I also very feel distressed, even tear turns in the revolve in the eye -- but the be of one mind below my horizontal stroke, do not turn round stoutly, thinking in the heart: "Daughter, old father this is for hello " . Because father is a police, often accompany the child impossibly beside, because life is very brief,return, we cannot accompany the child to arrive old, must let the child know what ought not to do.
Of course, include to have a meal cannot leftover, cannot Da mouth, cannot knock a bowl with the chopstick... want certainly child, from 4 years old the daughter takes rice to know " bead bead is all painstaking " do not remain a grain of rice.
Actually, certainly child is the most difficult is study, old alarm the viewpoint is " the study habit that begins to had been fostered from elementary school. " include to complete work independently, the word that does not know checks a dictionary to wait a moment, parents is in charge of checking work only, get up to cry only in the morning...
Finally, no matter how the child is difficult certainly, also be methodological problem of the parent certainly, the key is to should have patience, do not be eager to hope for success, want all sorts of praising to prepare what the child can accept language, praise the child to encourage the child, must not undertake comparative with the child of such-and-such home, this is the proposal of little education child.
