This problem, I want to know the answer too, because my Mom is such person.
The problem is, she does not say why to get angry face to face, how to correct ability to suit her purpose, say with others however, let party guess, let a person feel the heart is very tired. Say on psychology, this makes cold force, the purpose uses psychological pressure palm to charge the person that is gotten angry namely. Do not know how to should limit the person of such disposition, it is spirit has a problem or psychology has a problem, jural how should limit. The closest when I know, the old quarrels with her again, abandon right of inheritance also wanting to move out actually live. At that time the old because two old bodies are bad to live in the home to take care of them, changing pattern to cook to his home everyday, but because do not love to do individual sanitation, be cold-shouldered by old Mom, see look every day, throw boiler to hit a bowl, the old is enraged washed-uply. Come home before New Year see them, when decided train ticket prepares, the train 9 o'clock, preparation went out at 7 o'clock, the old lady is abrupt not willing, grouch, but the someone does not say why, because not be willing,we are guessed is I go, then I returned the ballot, defer a few days to go again. Family from only then do not say eventually oneself why. Of strange flower is happen to goes out to just break out, still help before clear away a thing, enjoin this to enjoin that. It is such disposition for years so, do so that the person all round is mentally and physically exhausted.
Psychologist says this also calls a family force, according to legal definition, this should belong to spirit to persecute, it is very difficult to just obtain evidence.
The old lady gives off a word to come again recently, say not to agree with the target that I locate, threaten if I marry to cancel me to accede the right of my pa belongings. The problem is she does not say with me directly, put a word to the kin in the home however, kin sends word to me. I decide, she wants true dare so do, I dare sue her really really the home is cruel, pour the bitter water in old heart.